Quote from: Dee Marshall on September 14, 2017, 07:30:06 AM
Jessica, just be careful if you have a layover on the flight. You might not want to wander out of the gate too much.

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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!

Think outside the voice box!

Thanks Dee. I don't have a layover either way of more than two hours so that should limit my wandering 

Quote from: Jessica Lynne on September 14, 2017, 12:47:43 AM
I'm in the unenvious position of heading to Thailand with male ID. I have no choice as I'm in a State that will not issue any State ID as a gender that doesn't match your genital presentation. Given those circumstances,  my only choice is to head over, have my surgery and head home with the letter they apparently give you before you leave.  I have had FFS and lost 40 pounds since my license picture was taken, so I plan on getting a new license in the male identity with a new picture that more reflects what I look like now. So thats my plan. I hope to get back in one piece and then head to the Court for new identity documents across the board as well as a Birth Certificate change. Anyone that see's holes in my plan, please give me some advice cuz' I just want to get this done with the least amount of airport drama I can muster. It really is inconvenient to live in aplace that's so terribly intolerant, but as I own a home here, my options are unfortunately rather limited.

I'm sorry to hear that.  What state, if you don't mind my asking?

Thanks again for the info, all.  Good stuff that has helped put me a bit more at ease as far as marriage documents-and my wife as well.  I will be going to Thailand for srs in Feb if everything works out.  I  look pretty much like the picture on my male passport and license, except for a moustache that no longer exists, so I hope to just go, get fixed and come back without any issues.  I'll have paperwork to hopefully explain in case I get scanned and arouse suspicion, also I may look a bit booby, but now I'm trying to pass as a male!  Boy, how topsy turvey can this get :-) ?  Toni

Quote from: Jessica Lynne on September 14, 2017, 12:47:43 AM
I'm in the unenvious position of heading to Thailand with male ID. I have no choice as I'm in a State that will not issue any State ID as a gender that doesn't match your genital presentation. Given those circumstances,  my only choice is to head over, have my surgery and head home with the letter they apparently give you before you leave.  I have had FFS and lost 40 pounds since my license picture was taken, so I plan on getting a new license in the male identity with a new picture that more reflects what I look like now. So thats my plan. I hope to get back in one piece and then head to the Court for new identity documents across the board as well as a Birth Certificate change. Anyone that see's holes in my plan, please give me some advice cuz' I just want to get this done with the least amount of airport drama I can muster. It really is inconvenient to live in aplace that's so terribly intolerant, but as I own a home here, my options are unfortunately rather limited.

You can change the gender on your passport before having surgery. It only requires a letter from your doctor stating you are undergoing transition.

QuoteI'm sorry to hear that.  What state, if you don't mind my asking?

The lovely State of Missouri

QuoteYou can change the gender on your passport before having surgery. It only requires a letter from your doctor stating you are undergoing transition.

I had heard that the State Dept. had slowed requests down to a standstill and it would be nearly impossible to get that done since the new Administration? Is that incorrect? If so, how long would it take to process?

QuoteThanks again for the info, all.  Good stuff that has helped put me a bit more at ease as far as marriage documents-and my wife as well.  I will be going to Thailand for srs in Feb if everything works out.  I  look pretty much like the picture on my male passport and license, except for a moustache that no longer exists, so I hope to just go, get fixed and come back without any issues.  I'll have paperwork to hopefully explain in case I get scanned and arouse suspicion, also I may look a bit booby, but now I'm trying to pass as a male!  Boy, how topsy turvey can this get :-) ?  Toni

Hi Toni! Looks like wee in the same position! Where are you having surgery? I'm at PAI and will be on the table  Feb. 9th. We may be there at the same time! I'm sorry too. I should have started my own thread on this stuff but were so close in circumstance I thought we could both get our questions addressed here. Good luck, Hon!

Quote from: Jessica Lynne on September 14, 2017, 12:48:49 PM

I had heard that the State Dept. had slowed requests down to a standstill and it would be nearly impossible to get that done since the new Administration? Is that incorrect? If so, how long would it take to process?

I have not talked to anyone that has applied recently. I had my name and gender marker changed about 18 months ago. My new passport came back in 4 weeks.

My passport was really fast in 2014 too, although I wouldn't be totally shocked if they are dragging there feet at this point.  The policy itself hasn't changed...yet.

Hi Jessica.  No worries, glad you chimed in.  I've been talking with Som (Dr. Chettawut, is that who you're seeing?).  We had been talking about Feb. 9, but it was pushing things a bit as I'm moving my son from Texas to Washington state over Christmas and so I think we settled on the 12th of Feb,  At any rate, it seems we'll be in Thailand about the same time if this all works out.  Let me know if Dr. Chet is your guy too, or if you'll be in Bangkok and we'll stay in touch, maybe even visit even if you're not with Dr. Chet when I  start moving about.  Feel free to PM me to keep contact as this develops (is that info available here?  If not just ask and I'll post, nothing to hide, or if you have a profile, I'll look there.  I'm a bit new here.)  .  Wonderful to hear any time someone's dreams come true!
Stay excited and lots of hugs for you as well!  Toni

Hi Toni,
    Just sent you a P.M. but it wouldn't go. I guess you either don't have enough posts or time here or something? I'm going to PAI (Preecha Aesthetic Institute) it's about 5 miles from Dr. Chett's place. Maybe we can hook up for lunch over there if traffic and timing will allow it? Good to meet you!! Jess

Hi, Jessica, yeah, I'm still "newbie" here and I'm not sure how the mail thing works.  Maybe I can find yours and then well just be able to keep in touch outside of this site.  I absolutely would love to keep in touch while in Thailand as our situations would permit  and lunch before (and after to celebrate) sounds like a plan to me.  Lets keep trying to find a way to pm and then we can discuss details.  Toni

keep posting Toni....I think you're close   We have time. 

Quote from: Toni on September 15, 2017, 07:56:23 PM
Hi, Jessica, yeah, I'm still "newbie" here and I'm not sure how the mail thing works.  Maybe I can find yours and then well just be able to keep in touch outside of this site.  I absolutely would love to keep in touch while in Thailand as our situations would permit  and lunch before (and after to celebrate) sounds like a plan to me.  Lets keep trying to find a way to pm and then we can discuss details.  Toni

You  are free to carry on conversations in view of the public however if you want to PM, look at a post for the person you want to communicate with and click on the comic strip text bubble on the left and that will take you to their PM.

For what it's worth, I did my passport recently after I had a new drivers license, social security, and California birth certificate. Those went in along with the DS-82 application and old passport. No problem with the acceptance officer at the post office, and the passport came in 10 days!  No rush payment or anything. I was shocked.


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Quote from: Michelle_P on September 15, 2017, 09:27:26 PM
For what it's worth, I did my passport recently after I had a new drivers license, social security, and California birth certificate. Those went in along with the DS-82 application and old passport. No problem with the acceptance officer at the post office, and the passport came in 10 days!  No rush payment or anything. I was shocked.


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Thanks for that, Micgelle. What have I got to lose? I'm a bit concerned being in Missouri and not Cali that they'll effect some kind of roadblock, still, it's an opportunity to simplify my process. I appreciate your kindness in letting me know. I'll give it a shot!

Quote from: Dena on September 15, 2017, 08:56:13 PM
You  are free to carry on conversations in view of the public however if you want to PM, look at a post for the person you want to communicate with and click on the comic strip text bubble on the left and that will take you to their PM.

Thanks as always for the guidance, Dena!

Quote from: Jessica Lynne on September 15, 2017, 09:36:01 PM
Thanks for that, Micgelle. What have I got to lose? I'm a bit concerned being in Missouri and not Cali that they'll effect some kind of roadblock, still, it's an opportunity to simplify my process. I appreciate your kindness in letting me know. I'll give it a shot!

Hi Jessica,
Missouri won't have any effect on you passport so don't worry.

Just an FYI. I just received a new birth certificate from Missouri. I live in Illinois so it required a court order from a judge in Illinois, but once I had that and sent all of the paper work to Missouri I got the amended birth certificate back in 8 weeks.

Quote from: Charley on September 16, 2017, 09:48:41 AM
Hi Jessica,
Missouri won't have any effect on you passport so don't worry.

Just an FYI. I just received a new birth certificate from Missouri. I live in Illinois so it required a court order from a judge in Illinois, but once I had that and sent all of the paper work to Missouri I got the amended birth certificate back in 8 weeks.

Thank you Charley...I think I'll give it a try. I'm full time so I have nothing to lose but a patdown by the TSA...hope he's cute!