Not sure what to say other then I'm here to be myself (rather then keep pretending to be what I have been).

I only cross dress at home alone, but it is for hours nearly every day for over a year and it just gets better each time!!

I am slowly working it more into my married life as well. I am middle aged and in Brisvegas in Australia. Thank you

Hello Babu, welcome to Susan's!

I am MtF in the Seattle area of the US.  I am also here to be myself, and I have been getting better at being myself out in the world although I am not full time yet.  I found this place very helpful to build confidence, share and learn from others with similar experiences.

Best wishes on introducing this part of you into your married life.  Many others here have managed to do that.  Overall my view is don't put too much pressure on yourself, just learn to be your natural self and that takes time.   

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Babu, thank you for joining!  See you around,

Kendra

Hi "my little Babu",

  Oh come on! You knew someone was going to say it. lol

  Hi! I'm Laurie. mtf Welcome to Susan's Place. The door was left open by Kendra so come right on in. I hear it's a bit chilly in Australia so come and sit here by the fire and  let's see if we can warm you up to us. Which do you prefer, coffee (like normal people) or tea? What's that? Hot chocolate!? Well, I'm not sure we have any but I'll go look. You just relax.  Hey! You're in luck I found a package of that instant stuff someone left in a drawer. Is that alright?  There all comfy? Next time you'll have to bring some slippers and a robe. I hear that's how all Aussie folk like to relax. It seems Liz is always in her robe, even when she's out walking the dog.
  So you enjoy crossdressing?  Lots of us do or have indulged it such activity, so you are in good company here. I myself did it up until November or December of last year. Yes, that was less than a year ago. Why did I stop? I actually didn't, it was just around then that I realized I wasn't crossdressing but was dressing to match who I really am. I discovered that I was actually a transgender woman. That's when my life began to change for the better. It hasn't been easy mind you, but today I live life openly as myself.
  I am by no means saying that my reality will become yours. No way, not ever. Each of us have to find our own path in life and work towards it. We cannot live our lives for someone else. I, like many, tried that and found only misery and destruction in that direction. When we choose the path that is right for us, life gets better, though getting there can be rough. I hope you have found the right path for you.
  I am happy you have found us Babu, and hope by doing so you find what you need. We will give you help and support if you need it and we will surely enjoy your company along the way.

Hugs,
   Laurie

Hi Babu 

Welcome to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

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