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Started by rus, September 22, 2017, 08:20:20 PM

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rus

Hi there everyone.. I am not sure I am fitting in well..  Now unfortunately I got an insane amount of tattoo's when I was younger and dumber.. now I think they make my body look well weird. my body structure looks very much like a mans still..     Ive been on HRT for about a month now and the breast buds are growing quickly so thats good but do you think I will ever be able to pass? or should I just give up now and save myself the headache later?

OR am I just jumping the gun here is it too early to tell these things I mean I only been on HRT for a month now.

attached is a recent picture to give an idea of what I'm working with here..  I will start working out as well so i know im a little chubby in the tummy area ill burn it off but the rest what do you ladies think?

thanks for listening.





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LadyGreen

All the girls were grew up had lots of tattoos and they still looked like women (even when the girls who would were baggy dickies and such)

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rus

Quote from: LadyGreen on September 22, 2017, 08:26:48 PM
All the girls were grew up had lots of tattoos and they still looked like women (even when the girls who would were baggy dickies and such)

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thanks for responding Im just uncertain..  I can make the tattoo's more feminine but I think my body shape is screwing me hardcore..  does that part ever change?




steps done so far to become the new happy me!
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Orchidectomy                  - Mar 13th 2017  (COMPLETE)
HRT Therapy begins Yay!  - Aug 21st  2017 (COMPLETE)
First Hair Removal            - Aug 29th 2017  (COMPLETE)
Second Hair Removal        - Sept 26th 2017 (COMPLETE)
More to Come...... sooooo much more :)
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LadyGreen

Im not an expert but i think your fat should shift a bit (breasts and hips) which will help but bone structer wont change. Just remember if you dont have facial hair and you style your eyebrows like most ladies do it will help alot with overall presentation which is more important in my opinion then any individual aspect.

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Julia1996

The tattoos themselves won't make you nonpassable. Lots of girls have tattoos and a lot of the girls I know have them. When I was 16 I was thinking of getting like a small flower on my wrist. But my dad said if I did he would remove it with the cheese grater. So no tat for me. If your appearance and voice are feminine you should be fine. Lots of people find tattoos sexy. I think yours look very cool but OUCH! That had to hurt! 
Julia


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Cindy

Honey there are no rules about passing. You are who you are, a lovely woman who has tattoos. Some people like them so don't. The only person's point of view that is important is yours.

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Roll

I just watched a few videos from a transgender youtuber who has fairly heavy tatoos, and she is gorgeous and they don't make her look the least bit masculine.

Just think, in a year if you were to post a similar picture it would be considered nudity. Something about that is amazing to me.
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rus

Quote from: Roll on September 23, 2017, 09:51:47 AM
I just watched a few videos from a transgender youtuber who has fairly heavy tatoos, and she is gorgeous and they don't make her look the least bit masculine.

Just think, in a year if you were to post a similar picture it would be considered nudity. Something about that is amazing to me.

do you happen to remember the link for the videos i would love to see .. thanks


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First Hair Removal            - Aug 29th 2017  (COMPLETE)
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Roll

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCT9lRRTBWIqMIfVgSyfsg7Q

She only has them covering one arm really visible, though you can see in some of the videos that she definitely has chest/body tattoos under her clothing. Maybe not quite as heavy as yours but still a fair enough indicator I think.
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8/30/17 - First Therapy! The road begins in earnest.
10/20/17 - First coming out (to my father)!
12/16/17 - BEGAN HRT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/21/18 - FIRST DAY OUT AS ME!!!!!!!!!
6/08/18 - 2,250 Hair Grafts
6/23/18 - FIRST PRIDE!
8/06/18 - 100%, completely out!
9/08/18 - I'M IN LOVE!!!!
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Nora Kayte

You will be fine. I think tattoos on women are the sexiest thing ever. My opinion it will only add to how good you look. And some can be made to be more feminine.


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rus

someone complained to imgur and they took my picture down :(

I can re-upload it but it might happen again..  if you guys can link any tattoo'ed girls it would help me feel so much better about myself and my past decisions..   

I know its really early and with some fitness and some time for the HRT to work I think i can pull off a pretty decent body.. 

my girlfriend already tells me i have a beautiful body but i think she is just making that up cause she feels she has to support me.

anyway thanks for the responses so far everyone you been awesome.




steps done so far to become the new happy me!
---------------------------------------------------------
Orchidectomy                  - Mar 13th 2017  (COMPLETE)
HRT Therapy begins Yay!  - Aug 21st  2017 (COMPLETE)
First Hair Removal            - Aug 29th 2017  (COMPLETE)
Second Hair Removal        - Sept 26th 2017 (COMPLETE)
More to Come...... sooooo much more :)
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Roll

Based on your previous picture trust your girlfriend. You looked like you are starting from a far better position than many people, myself included as I'm looking to start hrt. Maybe just look over tattoos and see if any stand out as masculine and look into modifications down the road.
~ Ellie
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I ALWAYS WELCOME PMs!
(I made the s lowercase so it didn't look as much like PMS... ;D)

An Open Letter to anyone suffering from anxiety, particularly those afraid to make your first post or continue posting!

8/30/17 - First Therapy! The road begins in earnest.
10/20/17 - First coming out (to my father)!
12/16/17 - BEGAN HRT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/21/18 - FIRST DAY OUT AS ME!!!!!!!!!
6/08/18 - 2,250 Hair Grafts
6/23/18 - FIRST PRIDE!
8/06/18 - 100%, completely out!
9/08/18 - I'M IN LOVE!!!!
2/27/19 - Name Change!

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LadyGreen

Try not to stress over it, i'm sure youll look great once the hormones are finished their work.

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amandam

Don't stress over it. You could also remove certain ones with laser if they bother you. You have plenty of time for that decision.
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