Welcome to Susan's Place. You put your post in the correct location and if you hadn't I could have easily moved it where it belonged. The earlier you start seeing the doctors, easer the transition will be. In my case, I wasn't able to start hormones until I was about 26 years old so I needed a surgery to correct my voice, facial hair removal and my adams apple reduced in size. This means additional pain and expense in order to complete the transition. In you case they would most likely place you on a testosterone blocker which would prevent additional masculine development. At 18 years of age, you would have the option to start estrogen and the feminine development would start at that point.

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Hi. Welcome to the site. I'm Julia, I'm 19 and I started hrt when I was 17. You really need to talk to a gender counselor. You said your patents will probably be accepting so maybe you can tell them you need to talk to someone and ask them to get you counseling. If transition is right for you and the therapist agrees you might start hrt or you might just be given a testosterone blocker. You will need parental consent to start either. Doctors are different. The first one I saw for hrt only wanted to give me testosterone blockers and said he wouldn't prescribe estrogen until I was 18. My dad didn't see any reason for me to wait a year for estrogen so he took me to another Dr and she prescribed both blockers and estrogen.  But even if you just go on blockers that's fine. Blockers won't cause feminine changes but they block any further changes from testosterone which is what you want. The younger you are when you stop the influences of testosterone the better the results with estrogen.

I know it can be scary but talk with a therapist to get things started. If you believe your parents will be accepting then tell them you are Trans. Your parents can help a lot if they are accepting.  I wouldn't have been able to start as early as I did without my dad.

Good luck. Please keep us posted.

T-blockers is what you want asap. Once they are there - it's like you hit Pause button and gave yourself a couple of years to experiment. Gender specialist (to send you down to endocrinologist), or endocrinologist operating on 'informed consent' (to get things moving faster, but it is still a good idea to meet gender specialist to help you find answers to your questions).


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