That takes me back to when my 3 were small.

Today was work in the gallery day.  I hung a monitor and hid power for it in the wall.  I got hot, dusty, tired in the process.  When I was almost done I thought to myself, this is a guy thing I'm doing.  Than I thought, no, I'm one of those cool girls that do this stuff.  That made me happy.  Of course I was in drab, and have barely been on hrt (3 months), so I did look like a man, but felt like a cool chick.

Bari Jo

For me today - For the first time, I decided to dress as myself all day (well an androgynous version of myself anyhow) - and I thought most people would probably just think I was a gay guy or something, so it was a small step.  It was a day where I didn't go anywhere unsafe - only around home and to my therapist (who didn't even comment!), and even if I did, as I said, it was fairy androgynous, but it wasn't male. (it was enough that my wife noticed and complimented my outfit!).

Every time I dress I'm shocked at how *natural* it feels. Which I never feel in drab no matter what man clothes I wear.

I woke up.  It's my birthday.  I'm even happy it's here.  It's my first birthday as me.  I've never felt amazing on my birthday before.

Artesia, you have had a string of highs, that is so awesome.  Happy B-Day too!

Quote from: Bari Jo on October 02, 2017, 10:00:57 AM
Artesia, you have had a string of highs, that is so awesome.  Happy B-Day too!

I think it is because I am no longer afraid to go out as me.  I would like to pass 100% but it isn't the chain holding me back that it once was.  I have been out as Claire more often than I have as Steve.  I work on an as needed basis for the company that replaced me before I chose to leave.  I worked for them as Claire for the last four days.  The only people who knew that I was not female were the ones who already knew me.  The new people registered me as female, at least at the beginning, I still have some tells that made them realize I was a Transwoman.  That was a real confidence boost.  One of them was a Speech Therapist, and said that there was something off about my speech that made her realize I wasn't a ciswoman.  I told her that I've only had a few(3-4)appointments, and she said I'm dong amazing with the voice.

One of the girls that I hired told me that she originally thought that I was a FtM.  She was surprised at my progress, and thinks I am doing amazing, and that most of my mannerisms are feminine.  I haven't worked there for four weeks.

Quote from: Artesia on October 02, 2017, 08:40:27 AM
I woke up.  It's my birthday.  I'm even happy it's here.  It's my first birthday as me.  I've never felt amazing on my birthday before.

Happy birthday, girl!! 

Today marks the anniversary of a major theme park.  I went to the gift shop and they had retro Jean jackets for figment to celebrate.  I tried them on and I fit a small.  That got me super excited, but I got a medium in case it shrinks a bit.  It's slimming, has rainbow colors on it, I like it.  I'm a happy girl.  I can't wait till the hair gross out and no beard.  I'll look good in this!

My wife brought home some bras and a shirt for me. And let me try on one of the dresses she bought for her. She is awesome!


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My brother and his partner drove 4000 miles (6400 km) to visit my wife and me.  We have had a lovely visit the last few days, but today was the best.  I went with them (my wife stayed home to look after the animals) to Port Royal and Annapolis Royal / Fort Anne, two historic sites here in Nova Scotia.  We had a great time poking around the recostructed forts in good but windy weather. 

The nicest thing was that it was an hour and a half drive each way, so we got to do a lot of catching up.  We haven't seen each other in five years, i.e. before I came out.  So my brother had a lot of questions about my experience growing up and my transition.  It felt good to be able to open up to them.

Kathy, sounds like you had a great visit - being able to reconnect with family and finally have them know you as your true self.

I keep getting closer to my goals.  Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles.  Parking and walking to the courtroom took more time than the actual process.  That was a lot easier than electrolysis! 

Next step: trade in my passport for one with an updated gender marker.

My endo is writing the letter I need for changing my gender in Indiana.  I'll get it in the next week or so.

Quote from: Kendra on October 04, 2017, 07:21:53 PM
I keep getting closer to my goals.  Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles.  Parking and walking to the courtroom took more time than the actual process. 

Woo-hoo, congratulations, Kendra!  You are officially yourself. 

I mentioned to my boss that I really enjoy going on business trips to our other offices Friday, and today, boom she slots me for Tokyo for November.  That made me a happy girl.

I now have a schedule of all my pre and post op appointment times from my surgeon. One pre and 6 post op for my Nov 2nd GCS 4 weeks from tomorrow

Quote from: Kendra on October 04, 2017, 07:21:53 PM
Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles.

Kendra, that is fantastic. I'm so happy for you!

I'm getting very close myself. I'm making plans to go full-time, tentatively November 1. After that there's no reason to wait to initiate all the name and gender change paperwork.  Verrrry sooooon...

Congratulations!!! 🎉

Quote from: Bari Jo on October 04, 2017, 07:45:45 PM
I mentioned to my boss that I really enjoy going on business trips to our other offices Friday, and today, boom she slots me for Tokyo for November.  That made me a happy girl.

Wow,  lucky girl,  sooo want to visit Japan.

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      not fallen out of them yet, gold goes with everything , jeans, leggings , skirt and any colour IMO. Very comfy guess the shoe of choice for Hot Rod club xmas dinner, brace yourselves lads!!!!!! 

Quote from: Sydney_NYC on October 04, 2017, 09:59:35 PM
I now have a schedule of all my pre and post op appointment times from my surgeon. One pre and 6 post op for my Nov 2nd GCS 4 weeks from tomorrow

Wow!  Congrats Sydney!!

Quote from: Kendra on October 04, 2017, 07:21:53 PM
I keep getting closer to my goals.  Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles.  Parking and walking to the courtroom took more time than the actual process.  That was a lot easier than electrolysis! 

Next step: trade in my passport for one with an updated gender marker.

Congrats!!  Isn't amazing to be free of the old self.  Now comes the fun part....Social Security, DMV, utilities, bank accounts, credit accounts and any other assorted things where you have your dead name.  I was able to get my college records changed including getting new diplomas issued!

Quote from: TonyaW on November 06, 2016, 08:54:01 PM
I recognize that! 

Thanks to a very outgoing barista that I ran into while out as Tonya one night, most everyone at my local Starbucks refers  me as Tonya even when in guy mode. 

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Out on your wife?

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