Hello all, I could not find a sub forum specifically for hair transplants. I'm 38 years old and lost the top part of my hair when I was 18. I went to doctors in the beginning of my transition at age 34 and they took a quick look at my head and said there is no point doing a transplant or taking medication. My top is too barren and there isn't any extra density on the sides and back to compensate with a transplant. That diagnosis hasn't changed since then after years of HRT.
Since then I have felt pretty good going around with hats and growing what's left of my hair.
So I'm okay either way, but still... I am considering to save up in the course of the following years for a possible... "upgrade".
See, those doctors told me transplant is pointless because they assumed I would want a full set of hair. Which of course ideally I would, but what about the next best thing... moving my bald part from the top of my head, to the back of my head?
See, I don't care so much about looking "normative" BUT a bald part at the back of my head looks a lot more feminine than a bald part at the top of my head and as much as hats are nice, I really would like to advance to a point where I can look feminine even when I'm totally naked, it would help with my personal feelings about my body.
So, my questions are:
a. is hair transplant a dependable way to move hair follicles and preserve their health and ability to grow into full length?
b. what is the range of how much do they cost?
c. who and where are the best doctors to do hair transplants who could help me do this weird thing?
To give you some idea of how this could look, here is a video of a youtuber who shaves parts of her head and still looks feminine.
Again, it doesn't look "normative", but that isn't a priority for me. Now, I know shaved doesn't look the same as barren bald no follicles... but I could tattoo the barren parts, and doing a tattoo over a barren top would not look feminine, but doing a tattoo over a barren back I think would look feminine. Plus, here she shaves the sides of her head, and my idea is for me to move hair from the back up top but if possible leave the sides untouched because I LOVE sides hair.
So question d. I guess is:
d. what do you think about my theory? Do you think it could work to make me look more feminine without having to rely on a hat or a wig, even if it does not look normative?