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Sister told my brother

Started by MeTony, October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AM

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MeTony

My called me and said she was sorry that she told my brother. I said it is ok. It's no secret.

My brother's reaction? He is a bully, I was always worried about telling him. Then what did he say? He said I should have done this as a kid! He has always seen me as a brother!

Some things are apparantly more obvious then I could ever imagine.
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Cindy

Ok that is good.

I think it is also don't drink alcohol.













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Megan.

Quote from: MeTonie on October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AM
My called me and said she was sorry that she told my brother. I said it is ok. It's no secret.

My brother's reaction? He is a bully, I was always worried about telling him. Then what did he say? He said I should have done this as a kid! He has always seen me as a brother!

Some things are apparantly more obvious then I could ever imagine.
More for news [emoji5],  great!

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natalie.ashlyne

That is great that he accepts you for who you are.
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The Flying Lemur

That has to be a huge relief!  I'm glad to hear that this went okay.
The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. --Joseph Campbell
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MeTony

If coming out keeps this pace, I'll be completely out at the end of the year.


I don't mind. But I need to give my husband time to adjust before any huge changes.


Tony
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MaryT

I'm glad that it worked out better than you expected.

I dread my brother finding out about my transitioning.  He even describes himself as a psychopath and he does tend to take advantage of any vulnerability. 

He won't be surprised, though.  He must know about my cross dressing throughout my life, although I never did it in front of him.  Also, many years ago, I overheard a female cousin tell him that I would be a better girl than a boy, and he agreed with her.  He has often made me cry, too, and I know he doesn't regard that as manly.
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HappyMoni

Yea, Tony, can you feel the weight of the secret being lifted? So glad it is going well.
Moni
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Gertrude

Quote from: MeTonie on October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AM
My called me and said she was sorry that she told my brother. I said it is ok. It's no secret.

My brother's reaction? He is a bully, I was always worried about telling him. Then what did he say? He said I should have done this as a kid! He has always seen me as a brother!

Some things are apparantly more obvious then I could ever imagine.
Judging from your picture, I'd think it's very obvious and I'd have a hard time thinking someone would be surprised. Just saying. I like the name Tony. It was my Dad's name and is my brother's name. Are you of Italian descent? It's cool your brother took it so well. I hope my remaining siblings do.


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Maddie86

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MeTony

Quote from: Gertrude on October 22, 2017, 12:15:26 PM
Judging from your picture, I'd think it's very obvious and I'd have a hard time thinking someone would be surprised. Just saying. I like the name Tony. It was my Dad's name and is my brother's name. Are you of Italian descent? It's cool your brother took it so well. I hope my remaining siblings do.


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No Italian. I'm from Finland. My son's name is Anton. I like Tony and it is connected to Anton.

My profile pic is photoshopped. I have no beard yet. I wanted a pic of me but not too obvious.

Here are two pics of me. Without the beard.

https://imgur.com/a/8C7fB
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