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Just came out to my sister

Started by Bari Jo, November 06, 2017, 09:30:03 AM

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sarah1972

Congratulations! What a great reaction! Must be a massive relief for you.

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Bari Jo

I'm letting my sister know all the praising comments about her that come through.  She really is a great person, and I know how lucky I am to have her.  Not everybody has this kind of outcome.  I'm still pinching myself and giddy.  My coworkers think I'm just a happy weirdo right now, which is also true:)

A happy day that I will remember all my life.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Charlie Nicki

That's great! Congrats.


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HappyMoni

Just caught up on this. You got me crying this morning. So happy for you Bari Jo! It reminds me  of when I told my brother. I suspect your relationship will be fantastic now that she knows your  truth. Yea!
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Kendra

You're in Japan so it's time for a Haiku.


Bari Jo pierced ears
sister starting to wonder
interesting project

electrologist
tell them but wrong phone number
holy smoke what now

time to tell her sis
she has another sister
go find the letter

time now standing still
waiting for her to answer
heart beat goes thump thump

unconditional
understanding and support
even used new name

complimented looks
sister admire sister
edgy and classy

now we really know
Bari Jo without doubt has
best sister in world
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Roll

Ima, Nippon ni iru ka?! Dou desu? O-tanoshii de ru ka?

(If I screwed up conjugation, it's been a while. ;D)
~ Ellie
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I ALWAYS WELCOME PMs!
(I made the s lowercase so it didn't look as much like PMS... ;D)

An Open Letter to anyone suffering from anxiety, particularly those afraid to make your first post or continue posting!

8/30/17 - First Therapy! The road begins in earnest.
10/20/17 - First coming out (to my father)!
12/16/17 - BEGAN HRT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/21/18 - FIRST DAY OUT AS ME!!!!!!!!!
6/08/18 - 2,250 Hair Grafts
6/23/18 - FIRST PRIDE!
8/06/18 - 100%, completely out!
9/08/18 - I'M IN LOVE!!!!
2/27/19 - Name Change!

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Julia1996

You are totally lucky you have a sister to share this with. She can help you with clothes and makeup, she can go shopping with you, you can do spa day with her and you have someone to watch girl movies with. My brother has always been supportive and he does what he can to help me but he's a guy so it's pretty limited what he can do to help with trans issues. I'm envious of you. I would love to have a sister. Not that I wished my brother was a girl instead, I love him dearly,  but it would be totally cool to have a sister as well as a brother. Enjoy your sister. I'm really happy she's supportive.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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zirconia

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Bari Jo

Hah, Kendra.  I didn't expect my sister and I to be immortalized in haiku, but that's cool.  I'll send that to my sister.

Ellie, I'll try and translate.  It's been about 25 years, and my conjugation was always formal.  this is way more conversational so it's difficult for me.  I think you are asking if Im in Japan, and do I enjoy going out.

Hai, Tokyo disunirando de ikimasho ne.  Hai, tanoshii de iru ne.

Mine is a bit rusty, too:)

Julia, I really hope we do all those things together.  I will see her for a week each month for the foreseeable future, and I hope that we enjoy typical things that only sisters enjoy together:)  still though we are both lucky with an incredible fortune of support!

Moni, yes, I hope so!

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Laurie

Bari Jo, you are indeed fortunate to have a sister like her but then I hear her new sister is pretty awesome also.
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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