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still can't believe it!!

Started by Bari Jo, November 12, 2017, 03:44:58 AM

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Bari Jo

As you know from a previous post, I came out to my sister last week.  It went so amazingly well.  I was literally grinning like an idiot at work the next day and with each text or email I'd get from my sister I got choked up.  I'm not used to being happy like this.  Misery and discomfort was my baseline.  Today, she sent me this:

"Oh man....I'm regretting this whole thing didn't happen a thousand years ago. Having a sister is so much fun. You've been awesome as a sibling too, but as far as sisters go, so much more fun things to do. We should probably plan something fun once a month while I'm here....."

I had to tell her I've dreamt of a quote like that.  I never thought it would happen, not in a million years.  Pinching myself here.

Now I'm worried that this is a honeymoon phase and it wears off.  God I hope not.

Bari Jo

you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Megan.

Super happy (and a little envious)  for you. X

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MaryT

That really is great.  You have a wonderful sister and she's made it obvious that she has one too.  Whether or not the elation cools, that's got to feel good forever.
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KathyLauren

OMG, I have happy tears just reading this!  You must be floating a metre off the ground.

I am so glad you are experiencing such happiness.  We need to re-set our baselines when we become our true selves.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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HappyMoni

Just try to relax and be yourself, be genuine. The rest will take care of itself.
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Jailyn

Bari Jo that is so great and I thought it would be okay. From what you had described it sounded like your sister would be cool. I wish mine was a little cooler with everything. My family likes to make jabs about decisions I make. I am an adult geez!!! Anyway my ex-wife is really great with everything though. So congrats!!!!!
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Julia1996

I'm so happy for you. I told you you would be able to do a lot of fun stuff with your sister. I'm happy she thinks so too. I would love to have a sister to do fun stuff with. But my brother is really great so I guess I'll keep him. Lol
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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Faith

I'm so happy for you. Enjoy it for all it's worth, you deserve it. Hearing about lifts my spirit too and makes my day so much brighter.
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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Roll

That is truly heart warming, I hope my sister is the same way! (Even if I have to wait until she's a little older. ;D)
~ Ellie
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(I made the s lowercase so it didn't look as much like PMS... ;D)

An Open Letter to anyone suffering from anxiety, particularly those afraid to make your first post or continue posting!

8/30/17 - First Therapy! The road begins in earnest.
10/20/17 - First coming out (to my father)!
12/16/17 - BEGAN HRT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/21/18 - FIRST DAY OUT AS ME!!!!!!!!!
6/08/18 - 2,250 Hair Grafts
6/23/18 - FIRST PRIDE!
8/06/18 - 100%, completely out!
9/08/18 - I'M IN LOVE!!!!
2/27/19 - Name Change!

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Bari Jo

Thanks everyone.  I won't get to see her face to face for a few weeks yet.  I know there will be tearful hugs.  I can't wait.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Colleen_definitely

I'm happy for you and totally jealous.  My sister is doing pretty good but nowhere near this well.

Congrats!
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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