Quote from: RavenMoon on November 15, 2017, 12:11:01 PM
I don't really get anyone reacting towards my appearance. Now I'm a musician, so I think that helps because people associate long hair and black nail polish with musicians. Lol. Also I'm 60 years old.  So it's not just teen fashion. Lol

But still, at my job I stick out like a sore thumb (I work in the printing field) and everyone seems cool with how I look. I'd imagine if I wore a dress or something too girly I'd get comments. Lol.

You and I stick out.  I'm 48, wear lots of pink and always ladies skinny jeans, rainbow jacket for figment, now with ears pierced.  It's obvious I'm not one of the guys.  I am a visual effects artist for a studio that is known for being the most accepting on the planet.  Even if a coworker had a problem, they couldn't say anything.  Still though I just want to be accepted, and friends with everybody.  One of my coworkers is very conservative and he has no clue about me, thinks I'm as conservative as him.  Hello?

I can't wait to get the brows done.  I'm glad I started this thread.  It's only given me confidence to do it!

Bari Jo

It sounds like a neat idea, but I have no idea where to start. Who does that kind of thing? Hairdressers?

Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 15, 2017, 03:19:37 PM
It sounds like a neat idea, but I have no idea where to start. Who does that kind of thing? Hairdressers?

Where I live it's usually a salon with many services, or a nail salon.  I see it advertised everywhere here.  I've just never gone in.  I'm in Southern California.

Bari Jo

Most salons offer it,  and it's not expensive. When you book you need to tell them if you want wax or threading,  as many of the techs may only do one or the other.

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Mine were shaped by my electrologist.  I like the results. 

Quote from: Megan. on November 15, 2017, 07:42:37 AM

I want that t-shirt!


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Me too, please! Size small, preferably in sky blue or lavender

Love this thread. Very informative. I've been thinking about getting my eyebrows done for days!!

Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 15, 2017, 03:19:37 PM
It sounds like a neat idea, but I have no idea where to start. Who does that kind of thing? Hairdressers?

Lots of places do eyebrows. Most hair salons and some nail salons offer waxing. I do waxing on a few clients as well as their hair. Wherever you have it done make sure the person doing it is experienced. Just because someone can cut hair or do nails doesn't mean they know how to do waxing. When I was in cosmetology school I had a week long class on waxing. It seems like a simple thing but if someone doesn't know what they're doing they can totally mess up your eyebrows and they take a while to grow back in. It's like a bad haircut but maybe worse. It's really hard to hide jacked up eyebrows.

Quote from: Julia1996 on November 16, 2017, 08:30:52 AM
Lots of places do eyebrows. Most hair salons and some nail salons offer waxing. I do waxing on a few clients as well as their hair. Wherever you have it done make sure the person doing it is experienced. Just because someone can cut hair or do nails doesn't mean they know how to do waxing.

Thanks Julia. How do you determine someone's experience? I'm a complete outsider on all this, and scared to death of the concept of stepping inside any kind of salon. Heck, I haven't been close to even a barber shop in over 20 years.

Steph

Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2017, 08:42:03 AM
Thanks Julia. How do you determine someone's experience? I'm a complete outsider on all this, and scared to death of the concept of stepping inside any kind of salon. Heck, I haven't been close to even a barber shop in over 20 years.

Steph

Just ask the person. Say " do you have experience waxing eyebrows ".  Don't worry about possibly offending someone. A salon is a business and you are the customer. It's a legitimate question. I have people ask me how old I am and if I'm sure I know how to do the cut they want. I never get offended. You need to be sure someone knows what they're doing before they cut your hair or shape your eyebrows.

Okay. I'm trying to own my transition by showing this.  The stylist went for an overall shape for my hair, so as when I grow it out it will look better.  It was getting shaggy.  Afterwards he did my eyebrows.  Then he did a little eye makeup.  So this is me, basically raw, no faceapp.  I do feel a bit discouraged.  I don't feel at all femme as the moment.  I know I have to have the beard removed, in process.  Anyway, fragile here.



Bari Jo

I see some very solid potential. The 'odd hair'  phase is an awkward one,  but a right-of-passage [emoji4].
I like the makeup,  subtle but good shades,  and the brows look tidier,  but still andro to my eyes.
You nailed it sister. X

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I agree with Megan. 

You have a lot going for you - a lot.  And my jaw is more square, if you wanna trade lemme know. 

Thank you both for pointing out its working.  We are our own worst critics, so I hear.  I'm learning I'm my worst but also cruel.  I started to compare my avatar to the pict today, and I think it's a step forward now.  Kendra, thanks for the offer, but I'll stick it out, even with all the electrolysis to do!

Bari Jo

Thats great Bari Jo! Keep it up we're on this journey together.. I'm right there with you pushing through

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You are very close to your avatar. The finished result from hrt will be very good.

There is an actress she reminds me of but for the life of me I can't think who, anyone have any idea?

Quote from: Megan. on November 17, 2017, 08:49:13 AM
Iand the brows look tidier,  but still andro to my eyes.

I think you are exactly right Megan, the stylist did what he wanted,  and honestly is slightly off on one side.  It's off enough that I want to use an eyebrow pencil to correct it.  I think I will grow it out and go for a more refined shape in a month.

My look now must be getting some response though.  It's not my intent, I'm just being me. I'm without makeup this morning, skinny jeans as usual and a blue and pink Tokyo Disneyland hoodie (just bought in this trip).  I pass a table with two ladies and their kids, and see the little girl look at me then away.  I think she said something like that person is gay.  For the next 5 minutes I was privy to how open our society is, gay is a good thing, and people can choose what they want.  Good parenting Mom!  She had the conversation loud enough so I could hear.

Bari Jo

I had my brows done when I went full time, as part of a promise I had made to myself.   When my divorce was final, rather than moping around, I deliberately set out to do things my ex had forbidden.  In one day, I had my nails done with a nice gel finish, I got my ears pierced, and I got my brows done.

The nails were done in a shop at the mall, and the ears were done in a Claires next door.   The brows were done at a Benefit Brow Bar, a little service area that does waxing and follow up stuff within some Macy's department stores and Ulta cosmetics places. (Mine was in a Macy's).

There were absolutely no issues anywhere.  Folks being paid by us are unlikely to misgender or otherwise mess up.  They need the income.

I decided not to have my electrologist do them as FFS might shift things a bit, and the waxing is not permanent unlike electrolysis.