Gender may not matter to some, but it matters very much to me as a woman, my femininity, my girlishness, is such a big part of my life now, being a woman and just being a girl, living a womanly life, we hear so much about non-binary, it's becoming a stigma if you admitt to being binary, I'm very much a binary female, I've embraced a binary female life that the majority of cis females would shunned and recoil from in horror, maybe because I appreciate my femininity and treasure it, I now live in a very binary relationship with my husband, he does all the man stuff fixing things etc, I do the house keeping cooking and cleaning etc, very therapeutic for me and for my womanhood, some have said I've let down the sisterhood, but doing ''womanly things'' and being a wife to my man has enhanced my life as a woman and the woman that I have become, a binary woman, sorry sisters.