For my mom, I usually get her gift cards so she can go out to restaurants and pretend I'm taking her. We don't live in the same state. For my dad, it's steak or seafood by mail. He's a homebody. They are divorced, different states. For my sister I ask her what she wants for herself and if reasonable, I get it for her. I think they have had a harder time with me. This year I've mentioned to them I'm getting myself a music player, and immediately my dad called dibs. Sometimes I guess you just gotta be vocal about what you want. My sister has mentioned she's happy I came out because choosing gifts for me will be easier. She's giving me makeup kits. I told her nothing Disney themed, especially not Frozen themed.
Bari Jo