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Well its official...

Started by Rowena_Ellenweorc, November 28, 2017, 04:52:41 PM

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Rowena_Ellenweorc

I'm out the rest of the way!!!!!!!!!!!  And so far, the outpouring and love and support has been amazing.  Which, for me, as many of you know is completely a surprise.  For those who don't know, I am surrounded by the strict Mormon culture, a not very LGBT friendly culture.  Family's Mormon, I live in Mormonville, Utah... etc etc etc...  Plus I have 'my way or the highway' parents.  So to have so many people show support and love, unconditionally, especially with my in-laws, who I was scared would see me differently, it completely surprised me.  I've not heard from much of my side of my family... the only person who responded is my sister (who is a bit of 'disappointment' for lack of a better word, to my mom anyway).  And of course, having issues with the Mormon faith of her own, she didn't respond poorly either.  Especially since one of her best friends is our gay cousin, which is one of the many reasons she took issue.

So here's hoping the trend continues, because I feel like a huge weight was taken off my shoulders, and there are so many people standing behind me now... I feel like we can make it.  (I''ll post a link to the post in my signature if you want to see it)
~Ren

Born May 1989 - Assigned Female
October 2016 - Came out to self/online
Feb/March 2017 - Officially came out to husband
April 2017 - Realized I'm Non-Binary
June 2017 - Started Therapy
August 2017 - Came out to parents
October 2017 - modified FB profile
November 26, 2017 - Came out https://www.facebook.com/notes/karen-ren-losee/please-read/10155966104353223/ on FB

"Walking beside the guilty and the innocent
How will you raise your hand when they call your name?"
- Bon Jovi "We weren't Born to follow"

I am done crying over not being feminine.
I am done griping about being too masculine.
I will be me.
And that's a non-binary being.
I am... ME!

....

This... is MY story
The story of a girl trapped in a guy's body.
A boy trapped in a girl's body.
No.  Its the story of a... human being.
- From one of my poems
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Megan.

Brilliant news, it's sounds like you've found support in unexpected places,  which is even more comforting perhaps than from those whom we'd expect it from. Happy for you. X

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Denise

Congratulations.  I'm happy for you.

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Bari Jo

Wow Ren, I'm really impressed.  You've overcome a lot and getting support from that part of the world is impressive.  I have a friend that is Mormon and causes me such grief and doesn't know it.  He is soooo lgbt unfriendly.  There's only a matter of time till we aren't friends anymore.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

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11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Rowena_Ellenweorc

Quote from: Bari Jo on November 29, 2017, 09:29:25 AM
Wow Ren, I'm really impressed.  You've overcome a lot and getting support from that part of the world is impressive.  I have a friend that is Mormon and causes me such grief and doesn't know it.  He is soooo lgbt unfriendly.  There's only a matter of time till we aren't friends anymore.

Bari Jo

Right?  I'm so freaking amazed... Like who the hell are these people and where did they come from? (Though, I'm still kinda laughing at the guy who annoyed me with some of his questions because he clearly didn't read the entire thing...  But one of the things he mentioned was maybe he grew up in a more liberal culture than I did because even if I was more masculine with gender role/expression, people are accepting... Um dude.. You freaking grew up in Utah.  Your brother rode the bus to school with me for two years, one of the first people I met.  And I moved to Utah from DC... Just hush...  Made me laugh...)
As for your Mormon friend, I'd be more than happy to give him a smack or two if I could... I mean um... Politely inform him that it won't kill him to be nice and at the very least keep his thoughts and opinions to himself..


Quote from: Megan. on November 28, 2017, 04:59:44 PM
Brilliant news, it's sounds like you've found support in unexpected places,  which is even more comforting perhaps than from those whom we'd expect it from. Happy for you. X

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That's the truth!!!!!

And thank you everyone I'm really happy for the support.
~Ren

Born May 1989 - Assigned Female
October 2016 - Came out to self/online
Feb/March 2017 - Officially came out to husband
April 2017 - Realized I'm Non-Binary
June 2017 - Started Therapy
August 2017 - Came out to parents
October 2017 - modified FB profile
November 26, 2017 - Came out https://www.facebook.com/notes/karen-ren-losee/please-read/10155966104353223/ on FB

"Walking beside the guilty and the innocent
How will you raise your hand when they call your name?"
- Bon Jovi "We weren't Born to follow"

I am done crying over not being feminine.
I am done griping about being too masculine.
I will be me.
And that's a non-binary being.
I am... ME!

....

This... is MY story
The story of a girl trapped in a guy's body.
A boy trapped in a girl's body.
No.  Its the story of a... human being.
- From one of my poems
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MeTony

Congratulations! I'm glad you got so much support from unexpected people. I hope I do too when it's time. I love reading happy posts like this. :)
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flower1221

Congrats, that is wonderful to hear  :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance:
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Cheaney

Congrats Rowena! Such great news and enjoy the freedom of being completely out!


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Congrats Row on coming out into the light. May your transition blossom.
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Jayne01

Congratulations on coming out and receiving all that unexpected support.
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