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Started by Denise, December 08, 2017, 12:45:58 PM

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Denise


  • grew comfortable with myself (April)
  • went full time (March)
  • legal name change (October)
  • learned to like myself (grew slowly all year)
  • Breast Augmentation (Halloween)[\li]
    • see female in the mirror (December)
    • unfortunately: Divorced (December)
    How about you?
1st Person out: 16-Oct-2015
Restarted Spironolactone 26-Aug-2016
Restarted Estradiol Valerate: 02-Nov-2016
Full time: 02-Mar-2017
Breast Augmentation (Schechter): 31-Oct-2017
FFS (Walton in Chicago): 25-Sep-2018
Vaginoplasty (Schechter): 13-Dec-2018









A haiku in honor of my grandmother who loved them.
The Voices are Gone
Living Life to the Fullest
I am just Denise
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Maddie86



  • got sober
  • finally accepted myself and my need to transition
  • started coming out to some select friends
  • started seeing a therapist
  • started HRT!
  • started electrolysis
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Megan.

* came out to extended family and friends
* came out to my children
* came out on facebook
* came out on linkedin
* went full-time
* started HRT
* turned 40

...gosh! X

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KathyLauren


  • Started HRT (Jan)
  • Started electrolysis (Jan)
  • Went full-time (Apr)
  • Legal name change (Jul)
  • First public speaking as myself (Jul)
  • Began process to get approved for GRS (Nov)
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Faith


  • Discovered Myself
  • Told my wife
  • umm, yep, that's it
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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davina61

*found Susans
*came out to my wife Jan
*kicked out house Jan
*moved into flat Feb
*Came out at work Feb
*Stopped wearing boy gear Feb
*First time out in a skirt July
*Full time November
*HRT approved Dec
a long time coming (out) HRT 12 2017
GRS 2021 5th Nov

Jill of all trades mistress of non
Know a bit about everything but not enough to be clever
  • skype:davina61?call
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Floof

  • Met my Girlfriend
  • Had my SRS in Thailand
  • Tights & Underwear shopping!


Quote from: Faith on December 08, 2017, 03:03:24 PM

  • Discovered Myself

No small feat  :D
Reisen er lang, hard og full av farer; vær modig mine brødre og søstre <3




SRS w/ Dr. Chet May 12th 2017
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sarah1972


  • Started HRT (Jan)
  • Came out to a bunch of people
  • Came out at work (June)
  • Started living full time (June)
  • Turned 45 (June)
  • Told my parents (August)
  • Started facial hair removal (December)
Enough for one year.

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Colleen_definitely


  • Jan/Feb: Hit rock bottom, hard
  • Finally got help in February
  • Convinced myself that this was actually possible
  • Hair removal (nearly done now)
  • HRT
  • Voice training
  • Out to friends and family in July (I can still smell one bridge burning)
  • Part time in late August
  • FFS consult in August
  • Learned to not run my chest into things any more  :o
  • Name change in September
  • Out at work and completely full time 27 October (ironically my first full time day at work was Halloween)
  • Checking with more FFS docs and running out the clock for GRS now

What a year.
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JoanneB

.          (Pile Driver)  
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(ROCK) ---> ME <--- (HARD PLACE)
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Devlyn


  • Started HRT (Feb)
  • Met Laurie (Jun)
  • Orchiectomy (Sep)
  • Met Kendra (Oct)
  • Changed gender on identity documents (Nov)

Wait until you see what I do next year!  :)

Hugs, Devlyn
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EmilyRyan


  • Started hrt (June)
  • Went homeless (July-September)
  • Went back to living with my parents
  • Still on hrt despite being back in the closet
  • Got a job finally (October)
  • Came out successfully at job
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Roll


  • Got my driver's license at 35
  • Lost 40+ lbs (about 80 total, the rest was in 2016!)
  • Discovered a love for Panera's Orange Scones that threatens the weight loss
  • Completed a good 50+ credit hours towards my degree
  • Oh, and did the whole came to grips with being transgender thing and am about to start HRT as soon as my shipment arrives in a few days and came out to family and all that stuff. You know, a typical year.
  • Ate more orange scones
~ Ellie
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I ALWAYS WELCOME PMs!
(I made the s lowercase so it didn't look as much like PMS... ;D)

An Open Letter to anyone suffering from anxiety, particularly those afraid to make your first post or continue posting!

8/30/17 - First Therapy! The road begins in earnest.
10/20/17 - First coming out (to my father)!
12/16/17 - BEGAN HRT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/21/18 - FIRST DAY OUT AS ME!!!!!!!!!
6/08/18 - 2,250 Hair Grafts
6/23/18 - FIRST PRIDE!
8/06/18 - 100%, completely out!
9/08/18 - I'M IN LOVE!!!!
2/27/19 - Name Change!

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Allison S

* went out as myself for the first time
* made 1 year at my job
* moved out of my parents house
* stopped cutting my hair/started hair removal
* started hrt
* came out to a few of my friends


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Thea


  • Lost 20 lbs
  • Started electrolysis
  • Started dressing androgynously at work to prepare for coming out there
  • Stated dressing as myself at home and for errands 90% of the time
  • Came out to a very select few friends
  • Celebrated 3 years of sobriety
  • Realized that my emotionally and financially abusive wife leaving me in 2016 was the best thing that could have happened to me (I know, I was a little slow on the up-take with that one)
  • Rediscovered a love of cooking and baking that I thought was long dead
Veteran, U.S. Army

First awareness of my true nature 1971
Quit alcohol & pot 10/22/14
First acceptance of my true nature 10/2015
Started electrolysis 9/12/17
Begun Gender Therapy 7/06/18
Begun HRT 8/01/18
Quit tobacco 11/23/18

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Jessica_Rose

- Started hair removal (Jan)
- Came out to wife (Feb)
- Started estradiol (Mar)
- Started spironolactone (July)
- Came out to manager and one co-worker (Oct)
- Started seeing a therapist (Nov)
- Donated most of my male clothing to a shelter (Nov)
- Increase spiro dosage (Nov)
- Scheduled trachea shave for early Jan (Dec)
- Lost 30 pounds
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
GCS - GCS and BA w/Dr. Ley
GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
23Mar2017 - HRT / 16Feb2018 - Full Time! / 21Feb2019 - GCS / 26July2019 - GCS II / 13Oct2020 - FFS II
"It is never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot
  • skype:Jessica_Rose?call
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HappyMoni

-  Jan-June, survived fear that something would stop surgery from happening.
-  June, had GCS surgery with Dr. McGinn. Yea! Lost 90% of body dysphoria.
-  Met Rachel and Laurie, received amazing support from 'Susan's' friends.
-  Summer Recovered.
-  September, back to work with new coworkers.
-  August, had surgery to remove fat under eye caused by FFS surgery in 2016.
-  November, had surgery to repair deviated septum with some tweeks for appearance.  Had post op freakout. Ok now.
-  December, started serious research for BA. Living life, happy being a woman.
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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The Flying Lemur

* Came to terms with the fact that I am transgender (March)
* Came out to family and close friends (April/May)
* Had weight loss surgery (July)
* Came out on FB and went full time (October)
* Down 60 pounds from my high weight (December)
* Got my first prescription for T (December)
The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. --Joseph Campbell
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DawnOday

Quote from: EmilyRyan on December 08, 2017, 09:02:58 PM

  • Started hrt (June)
  • Went homeless (July-September)
  • Went back to living with my parents
  • Still on hrt despite being back in the closet
  • Got a job finally (October)
  • Came out successfully at job

You have come a long way Emily. Still a ways to go. I hope it all comes together for you. Just in the time I have been here I can finally find some positives in your comments. Don't give up. Build on what you have accomplished.
Dawn Oday

It just feels right   :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_kiss: :icon_kiss: :icon_kiss:

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First indication I was different- 1956 kindergarten
First crossdress - Asked mother to dress me in sisters costumes  Age 7
First revelation - 1982 to my present wife
First time telling the truth in therapy June 15, 2016
Start HRT Aug 2016
First public appearance 5/15/17



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Faith

Quote from: JoanneB on December 08, 2017, 08:26:33 PM

  • Gave up   :(

:(

I waver but not giving up .. please don't give up on yourself
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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