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Going as myself

Started by MeTony, December 08, 2017, 10:06:56 AM

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MeTony

December 08, 2017, 10:06:56 AM
Going to a christmasparty. Going as myself. Wish me luck. None of the people know. Yet. I'll tell my friend though, before the party. She drives me there.

I have black jeans and a black shirt. No tie.

Lots of christmas-parties this year. It's a part-year.



Tony
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Bari Jo

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December 08, 2017, 10:10:19 AM
Good luck Tony.  I'm so impressed you are doing this at a Christmas party.  Forgive the phrase, but you've got balls to do it this way:)  I look forward to reading your post wrap up.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Jailyn

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December 08, 2017, 11:53:52 AM
Great Tony!!!!! You should go as yourself!!!! I hid my transition for 3 months from anyone till certain features were becoming detectable in my case. It is so much more comfortable to go as oneself places.
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MeTony

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December 08, 2017, 03:20:41 PM
Two women looked surprised when they heared me speak. But noone said anything. Yes! People talked to me and were nice. Nothing wierd.

I guess people are so occupied of what happens in their own lifes that they don't notice other things.

But anyway. It was a nice party. Noone got drunk and everyone kept it civilized.

I'm getting more confident in this thing that is being me.


Tony
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Megan.

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December 08, 2017, 03:24:40 PM
Brilliant news, it's so liberating when you realise how preoccupied people are. X

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MaryT

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December 08, 2017, 03:28:39 PM
Congratulations, Tony.  I'm glad it went well.
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LJH24

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December 09, 2017, 12:46:29 PM
I'm glad it went well and that you are feeling more confident!
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