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wilsoncheryl

December 09, 2017, 04:29:04 PM
Hello, my name is Cheryl and I was born female. I am a blended being and am neither male nor female. I just figured this out last week cause I buried myself to try to fit into mainstream culture. Well I don't fit in and never will with belief systems that there are only male or females.

I am struggling right now but hopefully with some therapy I can get to feel better soon.

All I know is living the lie, I do not yet know how to just be me......but I am determined to get to a better place eventually.
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HappyMoni

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December 09, 2017, 04:40:42 PM
Hi Cheryl,
   Welcome to Susan's. My name is Moni. Glad to see you here. It is a safe place to bounce things off of people who have had similar experiences, or vent, and laugh once in a while. I hope to see you around.
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Laurie

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December 09, 2017, 04:47:59 PM
Hi Cheryl,

  I said hi to you in another thread. Your comment "All I know is living the lie, I do not yet know how to just be me" made me think I know just what they mean. Almost all here have felt like that. In my case it was 64 years and like you I too am still struggling with just who and what I am. It isn't easy but here you will find help and support. We are glad you are here Cheryl.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone
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Jailyn

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December 09, 2017, 05:41:37 PM
Totally agree with the beautiful ladies above!!!! We can't live in a lie and have to be open to ourselves. Well it sounds like you are nonbinary and that is fits in here too. Just bounce things off of us and we tend to be an encouraging bunch!!! Welcome and come get a coffee!!!!
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V M

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December 09, 2017, 07:37:39 PM
Hi Cheryl  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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wilsoncheryl

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December 10, 2017, 09:00:28 AM
Thank you for the warm welcome. I am glad to have found you, and glad to have found a place where i can come to just be me.
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MaryT

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December 10, 2017, 10:14:20 AM
Hi Cheryl.
It is relaxing and liberating here on Susan's Place.
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