Reading your quote reminded me of one of the other postings that's current, re well meaning people saying "you're so brave"
It's a bit like suggesting a fire man isn't brave, he's just doing his job, by running straight into a blazing building.
All of us in our journeys may be only doing what's necessary for us personally, but I believe, whilst I can see it causes angst for others, it's quite a well intentioned comment as courage is certainly needed to face family friends etc.