I've recently talked to my girlfriend about whether or not she'd like to try out a prosthetic and she says she's ready and has been getting excited about the prospect of it (as have I). I have never packed or used any type of STP device, the main function I'm concerned about is play. So I've been looking around at a bunch of different sites, reviews, and everything, and for a while I was set on a Peecock Gen 3s with the pleasure rod, but then I saw a bunch of reviews from people saying their peecock had ripped and that its pretty easy to rip and tear. Then, I came across ftmconnect which I see is much durable and seems to be cheaper, but the pleasure rod for these (according to the picture, I could be wrong) doesn't have anything to stimulate your own anatomy. I'm pretty set on the ftmconnect 3 in 1 packer but I'm wondering, has anyone purchased one and used it with a pleasure rod from peecock and had positive results?