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GCS & BA with Dr. Ley at Meltzer clinic

Started by Kendra, November 04, 2017, 12:18:18 PM

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Faith

let me see .. topic ketchup .. ketchup is for, umm, .... nothing. Weelll, I have been known to use it (lightly) on my veggie-burgers along with some mustard. I don't eat regular hamburgers any more and hamburgers didn't get ketchup on them (they'd get mayonnaise, of course)
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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Sarah_P

Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 24, 2018, 09:41:05 PM
Now Sarah, don't gang up on me. It's not just for breakfast anymore. Ok, I'll go back to calling it a savory tomato-based relish-condiment. [emoji849]

- Stephanie

Or Catsup. Makes it sound more exotic.  ;)
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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steph2.0

Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 16, 2018, 11:47:15 PM
Kendra, I am so excited for you! Take it easy, and when you feel up to it, please let us know how things are going. I'll be thinking of you all day on Thursday, and watching closely for updates.

Told you I'd be watching closely. [emoji56]


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Saha

Tomatoes are a fruit, ketchup is a smoothy!
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steph2.0

Quote from: Sarah_P on January 25, 2018, 07:17:16 AM
Or Catsup. Makes it sound more exotic.  ;)

I dunno. Cassie and other Perfectly Sane Cat Ladies might take offense. Have to clarify that cat isn't really an ingredient.

A scene jumped into my strange mind of two cats passing each other on the street, bumping fists and going, "CatsUUUUPP?"


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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steph2.0

Quote from: Saha on January 25, 2018, 07:19:01 AM
Tomatoes are a fruit, ketchup is a smoothy!

Mmmmm. Tomato smoothy. 🤤

You may all disrespect the Big K all you like, but it lets you experience both sweet and umami in one condiment. And it was on the list of foods Mark Twain craved the most in A Tramp Abroad.

I know why everyone's hating on it. It's ordinary. And every here is extraordinary.


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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AnneK

QuoteTomatoes are a fruit, ketchup is a smoothy!

I thought ketchup was a food group.   ;)
I'm a 65 year old male who has been thinking about SRS for many years.  I also was a  full cross dresser for a few years.  I wear a bra, pantyhose and nail polish daily because it just feels right.

Started HRT April 17, 2019.
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Laurie

Oh by the way I wonder how (St)ep.. uh Cas.., Ti.. Den.. Jam.. Mari.. oh heck, I wonder how she is doing... It's time to stop all the condimenting on ketchup and get back to what's her name..... oh yeah Kendra.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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SassyCassie

Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:22:14 AM
I dunno. Cassie and other Perfectly Sane Cat Ladies might take offense. Have to clarify that cat isn't really an ingredient.

A scene jumped into my strange mind of two cats passing each other on the street, bumping fists and going, "CatsUUUUPP?"

Try as I might, I have never been able to get a cat to sup on that stuff.

Oh, and for the record, you three may have had ketchup in your little cups but mine had super-mild sauce in it, despite the fact that I asked for hot sauce. (Hey, I've lived in the South for 37 years!)
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SassyCassie

Quote from: Laurie on January 25, 2018, 10:16:08 AM
Oh by the way I wonder how (St)ep.. uh Cas.., Ti.. Den.. Jam.. Mari.. oh heck, I wonder how she is doing... It's time to stop all the condimenting on ketchup and get back to what's her name..... oh yeah Kendra.

Yes, and speaking of the lovely Miss Kendra, she and I shared a moment on the bridge while we were out walking after breakfast that morning. In honor of her convalescence, I shared something with her - a bit of a spoiler of my story, which held significance to this period in her life. It was one of those milestones many of us have to face, even though we all take different paths to get there.

That's all I'll say on the matter. The rest of you fine folks will just have to wait for that chapter in the story. That is, unless Steph and I happen to pull another surprise hospital visit in the near future! ;)
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HappyMoni

I thought it was time to ketchup on this thread as I thought I might be beHeinz on it. I'll wait another couple of days and Hunts it up again, my precious. Now don't be Gollumble.

Steak with ketchup yummy. A1 blows.

Oh yeah, I am happy to see you up and about Kendra, Laurie didn't even wait til I was out of my hospital bed before she attacked me and put me in the hospital. So happy for you. With all the lovely crazies who have been around you, I hope it doesn't hurt when you laugh. lol
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Sarah_P

Quote from: HappyMoni on January 25, 2018, 06:07:35 PM
Steak with ketchup yummy. A1 blows.

If the steak is made right it doesn't need any sauce!
Except BBQ sauce. EVERYTHING is better with a little Sweet Baby Ray's. Well, maybe not ice cream. Ice cream is really hard to cook on a grill.

Oh yeah.... how's Kendra doing?
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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Colleen_definitely

Kendra, while you're in AZ are you at least going to grab some decent Mexican food?

Actually when are you headed home?  I'll be in Phoenix next Thursday.
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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Kendra

Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:18:04 AM
Told you I'd be watching closely. [emoji56]

- Stephanie

Yeah you sure were!  First time I walked out of my room, there you are along with Cassie and Tia Anne.  Since I don't remember the surgery at all, now I gotta wonder.

Post-Op Day 7.  Yesterday and today went great with one exception - I tried making the switch from industrial-grade pain meds to ibuprofen.  By yesterday afternoon I was one hurtin' unit (oh wait, I don't have one of those).  The pain wasn't specific, not from the surgical area - hit everywhere to the point I couldn't focus or think clearly.  I mistakenly assumed that was caused by some sort of withdrawal from stopping the stronger meds.  I hadn't improved by this morning so I talked to one of the nurses and a doctor, they said based on my description to go back on the stronger stuff I'd been taking all week.  Took awhile to kick in and now I feel fine. 

So with my day of pain from an attempted switch to ibuprofen, how can I call that great?  Because the surgical results are excellent.  I am dilating at exactly the depth Dr. Ley said was the goal during the physical exam in November.   Swelling in the main surgical area is expected but mine has definitely improved - I have been careful to apply ice any time I can.

The whiteboard shows why I didn't get a full nights sleep last night.  Took several naps and now I feel rested.



Went for a nice walk this evening in Old Town Scottsdale - explored a different area with art galleries.  I stopped to admire some of the art.  A few galleries contain things I don't understand unless it really was caused by random paint explosions sprinkled with ketchup or salsa. 

Couple more nights here, return to Seattle this Saturday.
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Colleen_definitely

It'll be good to be home. 

But if you get a chance, try the green corn tamales at Macayo's.  Es bueno.
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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Kendra

Before experiencing the results of coming out to my parents six months ago, I didn't think I would ever receive an email like this - not in my lifetime.


From: (Kendra's mother)
To: Kendra F0wles
Thursday, January 25, 2018 9:36 PM

We just came home from Friday market
I bought shrimp and vegetable てんぷら for そばlunch
The shrimp てんぷらare very small shrimp, about '.5"'size,
They are good source of iron

I really appreciate thoughtful friend you have
This time, this operation to you are very important to you
Your friends came to you right after the operation and stayed with you
I am in tears
Please, thank to your friends for me

I knew you are recovering more than average
Because, you are healthy

I love you, kendra
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Laurie

Very nice and touching letter Kendra.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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steph2.0

Quote from: Kendra on January 25, 2018, 11:31:02 PM
Before experiencing the results of coming out to my parents six months ago, I didn't think I would ever receive an email like this - not in my lifetime.


From: (Kendra's mother)
To: Kendra F0wles
Thursday, January 25, 2018 9:36 PM

We just came home from Friday market
I bought shrimp and vegetable てんぷら for そばlunch
The shrimp てんぷらare very small shrimp, about '.5"'size,
They are good source of iron

I really appreciate thoughtful friend you have
This time, this operation to you are very important to you
Your friends came to you right after the operation and stayed with you
I am in tears
Please, thank to your friends for me

I knew you are recovering more than average
Because, you are healthy

I love you, kendra

That's so wonderful, Kendra. My tears are flowing freely, too. I bow low to your mother. Please thank her for her kind words. I hope she will some day allow me the honor of giving her a big hug.

Your sister,

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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steph2.0

Quote from: Kendra on January 25, 2018, 11:31:02 PM
Before experiencing the results of coming out to my parents six months ago, I didn't think I would ever receive an email like this - not in my lifetime.

A gift to Kendra
Love between parents and child
No wall can block it


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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SassyCassie

Quote from: Kendra on January 25, 2018, 11:31:02 PM
Before experiencing the results of coming out to my parents six months ago, I didn't think I would ever receive an email like this - not in my lifetime.


From: (Kendra's mother)
To: Kendra F0wles
Thursday, January 25, 2018 9:36 PM

We just came home from Friday market
I bought shrimp and vegetable てんぷら for そばlunch
The shrimp てんぷらare very small shrimp, about '.5"'size,
They are good source of iron

I really appreciate thoughtful friend you have
This time, this operation to you are very important to you
Your friends came to you right after the operation and stayed with you
I am in tears
Please, thank to your friends for me

I knew you are recovering more than average
Because, you are healthy

I love you, kendra

I'm speechless - truly I am!

The level of understanding and acceptance evidenced by your mom has got to be lifting some of that weight off of your shoulders.

It'll be okay, sister. Everything's going to work out fine.
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