A few bra tips:
1. "Sister sizes" Cup sizes may seem highly variable, but within a specific brand/type, the cup size goes up along with the band size. A 34D is the same cup size as a 36C. So is a 38B. This holds true within the A-D range. Get into the AA's and DDDD's and all bets are off.
2. If you are a tall woman, most bras are too short for you. Shoulder strap adjustability is a non-negotiable, and your height might still throw off the way the cups hit you.
3. Try not to push up until there is something to push up. You're better off buying a pair of silicone inserts ($25 or so) and actually inserting them into the padding slot of a minimally padded bra.
4. Consider band extenders. Your chest is not just larger than that of a ciswoman. It is also different in shape in terms of where the maximum diameter occurs. Pre-HRT, I wore a 38AA with a 2" expander. Voila! 40AAA. Try finding that shape anywhere. Post-HRT, I wore 38A with a 2" expander--40AA. Believe it or not, I had shape with both of these, even though they were only 1/16th inch padded--just enough to hide pointy man-nipples.
5. You don't need to exactly fill the cup if it looks like you exactly fill the cup. 'Nuff said.
6. You need to try it on, hon. Post augmentation I wear sizes from 38B to 40D, depending on the brand and style. Go to the store, grab a dozen and get a room. You are a customer, and your money is as green as the next girl. The store keeper is often trained to be sensitive to your needs. Shopping in person is a great way to practice being out full time.