Tell us who you date.

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Quote from: MeTony on January 28, 2018, 12:30:41 AM
Can't see polls in Tapatalk. Can you explain what you wrote? All I see is

All it is is a poll and I didn't write anything other than the emote.

Quote from: MeTony on January 28, 2018, 12:30:41 AM
Can't see polls in Tapatalk. Can you explain what you wrote? All I see is

It's basically asking who you date gender wise.

Quote from: KarlMars on January 28, 2018, 12:58:51 AM
It's basically asking who you date gender wise.

Ok. Thank you.

Not dating atm. I'm still married. But if the time comes, I'll date all gender types. It's the personality that is interesting in a person.

I like dick. I don't particularly have a preference regarding what gender the dick-possessing person is. I don't think there's a PC term for that.

I answered "male" cause I'm only into men nowadays but I used to be vaguely into women before, although never actually dated any woman and now I don't want to in the future either. I have a strong preference for cis men, but am into trans men as well to a certain degree. I'm into both kinds of genitals on guys, but not female secondary sex characteristics.

I date all genders. I don't restrict myself or anyone else to a binary.

i'm not at a point in my life where dating is a realistic or comfortable option for me.  but my attraction leans toward women, if that answers anything.

I'm not interested in dating anyone for a while.

Pretty jaded on the relationship front and the "hell is other people" business. Even if someone amazing come along, I probably couldn't just leave my friend behind to go swan off with them.

I'm not sure what to put as the poll answer since I'm feeling particularly bitter today.

Men. Trans or cis

I am solely attracted to fellow males.

I'm not dating anyone at the moment though because I haven't finished my medical transition yet and without a decent body I obviously can't date anyone. I don't want to date while still being trapped in such a monstrosity with such disgraceful parts. I am grossed out by those parts and I respect myself enough that I would never humiliate and degrade myself as far as to gross a hypothetical partner out with that disgusting thing that I don't even acknowledge as belonging or having anything to do with me.

I will date when I have finished my medical transition and possess a respectable body, until then I continue to stay single and abstinent as I did my whole life so far.

Quote from: SeptagonScars on January 28, 2018, 12:09:17 PM
I answered "male" cause I'm only into men nowadays but I used to be vaguely into women before, although never actually dated any woman and now I don't want to in the future either. I have a strong preference for cis men, but am into trans men as well to a certain degree. I'm into both kinds of genitals on guys, but not female secondary sex characteristics.

Same for me.

Although I did vote 'both', I've only had one serious relationship with a cis girl (my first two 'relationships' were in middle and early high school and I don't count them), but I'd consider dating any gender.  My only preference is that I'm more attracted to feminine people than masculine.   

More attracted to men. Although I've 'dated' women, some amazing women, I find the masculine psyche a better match for my own and romantically speaking they've always been more compatible for some reason. Might be something to do with risk factors and reliability, when trust has already been accounted for.

Kind of attracted to a specific sort of guy, though. Not sure the word for the physique - tall/lithe. Not scrawny. Not excessively built either. With a certain degree of masculinity in the face. etc. With women I couldn't describe a specific "type" although I always seem to be drawn to the brunettes.   

When it comes down to it though, I've always been in the game for the long haul and that means finding someone who's not only basically attractive but who doesn't end up driving you nuts after a couple of years. Their "type" may not go the distance. Casual dating has never been much my scene (or luck). It always turns into Gomez and Morticia within a week.   

I put "other" because "both" implies that there are only two gender identities...

I said other and here's the reason: I'm really not sure about it all!

I do find both men and women romantically appealing to me and I could, defo, have a crush on a people of both genders. I could defo go out out with them. However, I find women much more sexually appealing than I find men - and therefor I'm not sure if I could, practically speaking, date men. Testosterone has changed me into much more sexual than I used to be pre-testosterone, after all.

Gosh, I'm glad I'm married. No need to spend too much time thinking about these things!

I really don't have a "type" for the men I'm into. I struggle to understand what even is sexual attraction. Is it me being horny for someone or do I need to find them aesthetically pleasing as well? Cause that's rarely correlated for me. I can want and enjoy being with a guy I don't think looks good, and be very uninterested in and not like being with a guy I think does look good, and the reverse happens on occasion as well. It seems to not be about looks much at all, beyond gendered traits.

I feel "drawn" to maleness, like male physical features, but what type of it has no bearing. Same as I feel "pulled away from" femaleness, for whatever reason. With men, all I ever go by is how well we communicate, our connection and compatibility.

It makes it ridiculously easy for me to find men for casual sex though, I've gotta admit. As long as they're acting decent and are serious, I'm up for it. I don't even need to know what they look like at all before I meet them, if there's a connection I know I'm 99% likely to like being with them, regardless of their looks.

But it confuses me nonetheless, and I hate getting the question "why do find me attractive? I don't look good" cause I neither want to be honest, nor do I want to lie. I'm attracted to them, but I don't find them attractive.

Quote from: Oblivion on January 29, 2018, 04:59:08 PM
Men. Trans or cis

Same.  My partner, even though he's also trans, is not currently transitioning, and he might never do so.  However, his mind is male, and I find that really attractive.

I have to admit, it took me a while to become attractive to his AFAB body, but after sorting through that mental jungle, I find him extremely attractive, even if he doesn't think of himself as so.

Ryuichi

Pretty much into men and masculinity in most ways that count.

However, I could see myself fooling around with a woman in a strict BDSM/kink sense - I probably wouldn't be attracted to her physically, and definitely not romantically, but she could be fun to play with for a scene if we had the mental chemistry.