Hi friends 🙋♀️ I have always felt that to help someone in pain, you point out positive aspects in their situation instead of flaws. Flaws are in everyone's life and we all strive to make ourselves better, but they are better dealt with in a environment where you are not distracted by the numbing discord of despair or hurt. When I find pain in new member comments that are so common, I remind myself, this is a soul reaching out, this was you at one point, you have shed these tears too.
When you read any comment here, you are listening to someone's life, their soul exposed sometimes. Treat them as if they were yourself. You gain life lessons from everyone's life you expose yourself to. Show them love, then help them heal.