Finally I can talk about something that I know a little about! 😁
I am not an expert at styling hair, heck I am too lazy to even spend any time on my hair. My avatar picture was about 5 minutes effort. Probably can tell huh? 😜 My hair is very frizzy, it is also curly though. Normal day for me is:
If just washed, leave in conditioner. I only was my hair once maybe twice a week though. I do wet my hair every day.
Days that I do not wash I put in anti frizz oil.
Either way I let air dry most days after then scrunch it a few times as it is drying.
Days that I absolutely must dry my hair it's upside down, cold 2 minutes give or take, hot 2 minutes, warm 2 minutes, then cold to finish.
Now I did just get my hair cut yesterday and she straightened it. I paid attention and even called her today to see if she would go over it with me next time. Wash, comb the dead hair knots out with a W I D E tooth comb, a cream of some sort underneath (gonna have to ask her), dry a little, 30 minutes with a big round brush and hair dryer pulling the curl out from the inside out then hair spray When she was done. It was beautiful and I WILL learn to do it! Unlike the makeup thing that I said that I would learn and haven't had any makeup on in over a year. Sheesh, I am pathetic. ☹️
Leave in conditioner helps a lot or anti frizz oil. Mess with it as little as possible after you finish with it. Damp days are my nemesis and I have a tendency to growl as I walk out the door.
Trial and error, you will master it in no time.