Thanks, this helps!
Yeah, i don't know what the one-year-wait thing is but he's mentioned it a few times since i started seeing him so i've been under the impression that it's just something that most surgeons are looking for? It doesn't really matter, i guess, because i'm not in any rush. I still have to do the name change, gender marker change, and am still working with my parents and family on this whole thing. Surgery hasn't even been brought up with them, they're totally going to freak out. And like i said, I also have to get clearance from my hematologist (likely not going to be a problem).
Timeline: i'm hoping to get in to see the hematologist by Spring and get that clearance, have my letters in hand at that point from everyone i need (endocrinologist, therapist, hematologist), get in to consult with one or two surgeons by Summer, have something scheduled for January/February 2019. Rough goals, there!
I'm just looking for names at this point, maybe some examples of their work, experiences others might have had, etc. I'll be asking the hematologist for suggestions as well, and my endocrinologist suggested calling my insurance to ask them who they covered......
Re: the healing.....
I've heard some people are back to "normal" within a month, others it takes longer. I'm looking at the double incision so i know my healing time will be longer than, say, if i had keyhole. I'm not going to push myself or corner myself when it comes to healing, so i'm timing it (hopefully) so that i can have however many weeks off i need and then i can ease back into work. As a dog groomer i'm on my feet ALL day (literally), there is a lot of heavy lifting (some dogs will not get on the table - i've lifted dogs up to 50lbs before with no help), lots of maneuvering of my arms (you should see the positions we find ourselves in), bending, blocking dogs with my upper body, etc etc.