Im not gonna lie, there have been a few guys who I thought were cute. One while I was working on day. There was another guy I couldnt stop looking at while I was out one day. He was kinda like well hot. I left soon after. I def wanted to talk to him while I was there.

Usually Im into females but every so often there is a guy Ill really like.

Nowt wrong with that is all I will say

Quote from: Larisa1983 on February 18, 2018, 06:56:05 AM
Im not gonna lie, there have been a few guys who I thought were cute.

I find myself doing the SAME THING!

Positively SHAMEFUL for a girl my age! I suppose sexual orientation in large part has 'to do' with past experience, if any(?), have found 'gay guys' to be a good first starting point!

Guess you aren't quite as gay as you first thought, lol.  But you're in good company.

Quote from: Kiera on February 18, 2018, 07:17:24 AM
I find myself doing the SAME THING!

Positively SHAMEFUL for a girl my age! I suppose sexual orientation in large part has 'to do' with past experience, if any(?), have found 'gay guys' to be a good first starting point!

Ya the one guy I couldnt stop looking over at him. I had to try to stop because it was gonna freak him out but he was just so cute!! I got over him once I left. He was like perfect like that gentleman type like a nick jonas type!

I had to watch myself so I didn't gawk at hot guys once I started dating Tristan. It wasn't that I thought they were hotter than him or that I wanted to hook up with them it was just force of habit. I've always stared at really hot guys even before I transitioned which could be touchy if the guy I was hawking knew I was a boy. Lol.   I don't know what it is about some women who openly stare at other women's men. No matter how hot a guy is I don't look at him if he's with a woman. But I notice women staring at Tristan and even smiling at him and acting flirty when they see I'm right there! WTF?

I've always preferred men slightly more than Women. Nothing wrong with playing on both sides of the fence.

I used to only look at females now I am looking at male more than female. Some of the girls I work with notice me checking out some of the males that show up at my work. The laugh at me and say stuff like (so do you like what you see, ya he is cute you should go talk to him, look no ring. I was caught bitting my lip day dreaming and starring at a really cute guy

Quote from: Larisa1983 on February 18, 2018, 06:56:05 AM
Im not gonna lie, there have been a few guys who I thought were cute. One while I was working on day. There was another guy I couldnt stop looking at while I was out one day. He was kinda like well hot. I left soon after. I def wanted to talk to him while I was there.

Usually Im into females but every so often there is a guy Ill really like.

I always thought transgender had nothing to do with sexual preference.  That most don't change their sexual preference just by transitioning. If you were totally sexually attracted to only females, no time thought of guys that way, that transitioning don't automatically change your sexual preference or does it??

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From high school through my thirties I had a close friend and we went everywhere together. When I got married, I missed him. We would go out together ostensibly to check out the girls but I never danced with any of them. I was just happy to be with him. I never thought of him sexually at least overtly. My first wife did not like that I was always talking about him and thought that she should be the center of my attention. I never realized just how off putting this would be.

I'm bisexual and lean far more heavily to females however I am attracted to a certain male body part. I for the most part am not attracted to men in the least however I know that hrt can change things. I suspect I will become much more bi. like 50/50 instead of the 80/20 I am now.
Ive never liked mens smell. I love the way female smell so we'll see lol


--Sasha

     I have no interest in men at this time I don't see this changing but if it does it does it would seem natural then so if it happens i will accept it I am transitioning for me and not for who I like

     bobbisue

I think it is great how different we all are. 😊 I love the way men smell, always have. Even as a teen when I was afraid that I might be gay, I loved it. Hated that I loved it actually. Lol, I spent so much of my life hating the way men made me feel. What a waste of time. 😁 There was a guy that I used to compete against, complete jerk when it came to sportsmanship and no one liked him. His voice made my insides churn. He would stand behind me to watch me play after our match was done, lean down and look over my shoulder, UGH! The churning turned into a warmth that spread out and intensified until my face was on fire. This gorgeous a hole did not belong in a room full of nerds.

Yep, I like men. 😊 I don't feel guilty or evil about it anymore either.

Nor should you!

I read posts here like this and about other girls here getting excited about dates with guys etc, but I can't ever picture myself in their place.  I'm happy for them but it's just not me.  I still like girls only, one in particular, after a year of HRT. 

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Women are nice to look at, but I love daydreaming about my future husband.

I was never attracted to guys and was only interested in girls until I was over a year and a half into my transition. I was 55 before I ever had a thought about a guy.  I haven't been with a woman in about a year now but have been with a number of guys. It's funny how many young guys want to be with an older woman.

Before transitioning, I was attracted to both men and women, but men more so. Since starting hormones I've definitely noticed a stronger attraction to men so I personally think that hormones can play a factor in sexual orientation if there is already some fluidity there in the first place.

Quote from: AprilRyan on February 21, 2018, 05:00:45 AM
Before transitioning, I was attracted to both men and women, but men more so. Since starting hormones I've definitely noticed a stronger attraction to men so I personally think that hormones can play a factor in sexual orientation if there is already some fluidity there in the first place.

That's what I am afraid of

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Why are you afraid. If there's no attraction now you might not ever be but once on hrt if you do become attracted you might not care. There's no shame in it. If you do have some talk with a therapist

-- Sasha