Hiya all!
I have a question. First, I have to give some information. I am in my 50s and worked all my life. I got sick several years ago and came close to dying a couple of times. This really prompted me to want to change my gender, as it became apparent I wouldn't have forever to do so. I have a lot of pain and the disease is one you have to live with, as there is no cure. After trying several times to continue working, it was recommended that I file for disability. So I did. The illness has left me with a lot of bills and the inability to work has left me with a lot of debt and bad credit.
I've filed for disability based on the disease I have and the pain I live with. I have a 75% chance of winning. I have not included gender dysphoria as a part of the disability. I have not told my doctor or lawyer I am gender dysphoric. I have only told a therapist. I live in rural Alabama, and people are not very supportive of trans-peeps. I have been told by friends that gender dysphoria can qualify as a disability. I have been reluctant to talk to my lawyer or doctor because not everyone will treat you or represent you, particularly if the community will not support their business.
Is there a group I can contact to help me assess whether to add gender dysphoria to my claim? I am hesitant to ask the lawyer or doctor because I am afraid they will not support me. So I would like to have an alternate lawyer who is LGBT friendly to go to if I get told by my current lawyer they don't wish to support me. Same for my doctor. Truth is I am tired of waiting to go on HRT, and the therapist feels I will qualify easily.
Also, if disability is not approved, how do I find companies to work for that are trans-friendly? One way or another, I headed for HRT.
Any help or ideas will be appreciated greatly. It will be tomorrow before I can check back in for any answer, so TIA!
Violett