Hey guys,
So it's been quite a few years since I've been living as male, and I first started binding 4 years ago, and I had the same medium sized binder from underworks for 3.5 years before switching it out since it got pretty useless. I started wearing a large because I had grown considerably in terms of muscle mass, but unfortunately with only 6 months of use, it's become pretty useless and shows really noticeably through my T shirts and I just can't stand it, not as a dysphoria thing but because it's just not a good look. I've decided to start wearing a medium sized binder again but I'm so used to wearing such loose, stretched out binders that it really sucks being back to wearing this tight, uncomfortable thing and having to worry about how long I wear it and such.
I just know I have to get through breaking it in, but the thought of feeling all this binder discomfort again for months/years is awful. On top of that, I don't plan on getting top surgery for at least another year/year and a half due to school and stuff. Any advice on how to speed up the breaking in process besides just straight up wearing it? Also, just out of curiosity, for those of you who have gotten top surgery, how long did you bind before getting top surgery? How long did it take to plan top surgery and get a date? I feel like I'm waiting forever but I don't really have a choice.