Do I pass? (Updated!)

Xanderthevampireweeb · March 09, 2018, 09:27:03 PM

I'm looking to start using the men's bathrooms, but im worried I won't pass enough? I have bedhead for days, so sorry about my hair being gross as hell. I'm also thinking of growing it out to get a deathhawk, but im worried I'll either 1. be super dysphoric, or 2. get misgendered all the time, so idk.

https://imgur.com/a/nrA93

natalie.ashlyne · March 09, 2018, 09:32:08 PM

I totally think you look like a guy 100 percent

sweetjohnnylat · March 09, 2018, 09:32:14 PM

Quote from: Xanderthevampireweeb on March 09, 2018, 09:27:03 PM
I'm looking to start using the men's bathrooms, but im worried I won't pass enough? I have bedhead for days, so sorry about my hair being gross as hell. I'm also thinking of growing it out to get a deathhawk, but im worried I'll either 1. be super dysphoric, or 2. get misgendered all the time, so idk.

https://imgur.com/a/nrA93

You look fine just act cool.. everything will be ok.

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Julia1996 · March 09, 2018, 09:47:12 PM

Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 09, 2018, 09:32:08 PM
I totally think you look like a guy 100 percent

I agree.

Donna · March 09, 2018, 09:49:26 PM

I don't think I would look twice seeing you use a men's room. Give it a try, you have nothing to lose. Just be prepared they can be a tad yucky. I don't even like using them.

Natsuki Kuga · March 10, 2018, 12:09:18 AM

No worries, amigo.

CarlyMcx · March 10, 2018, 01:34:07 AM

When I look at your photo I see Anthony Michael Hall in Sixteen Candles. https://goo.gl/images/9ucYWf

Just walk in like you own the place, do your business, wash up, and get back to business. Because that's how guys roll.

Hugs, Carly.

CallMeKatie · March 10, 2018, 05:24:28 AM

Look like a bloke to me

Quinn · March 10, 2018, 05:31:30 AM

You look Fine, Guys do not socialize in restrooms. its unusual to make eye contact or have a conversation in a restroom. Walk in do what your there for and walk out.

KathyLauren · March 10, 2018, 10:31:51 AM

I see 100% guy.

JaneinFL · March 10, 2018, 11:33:22 AM

Yes!

VickyS · March 10, 2018, 12:52:53 PM

Yep. Middle picture especially.

CallMeKatie · March 10, 2018, 01:58:58 PM

Quote from: Brie B on March 10, 2018, 05:31:30 AM
You look Fine, Guys do not socialize in restrooms. its unusual to make eye contact or have a conversation in a restroom. Walk in do what your there for and walk out.

OP take this advice. If a guy looks at another guy in the bathroom at all it is awkward.
I assume youll be using the stalls and if you're worried about guys noticing that, they don't even care.

I also want to echo about them being disgusting in general. Loose seats, peed on floors and peed on toilet seats!

I fully recommend carrying some small hygiene wipes to wipe the toilet rim.

Some men are just gross

Geeker · March 10, 2018, 02:25:09 PM

If you're aiming for awkward teen then you nailed it!

Also, I second the hygiene wipes.

somme_girl · March 15, 2018, 06:11:46 PM

You pass in the pictures -

voice, height, size, mannerisms, etc all affect how your are percieved though

mm · March 16, 2018, 11:30:13 AM

You should have no problem, guy are there to do there business and leave many not even washing their hands. I use a stall all the time and have never had a problem.

Natsuki Kuga · March 17, 2018, 01:43:04 AM

Quote from: CallMeKatie on March 10, 2018, 01:58:58 PM
OP take this advice. If a guy looks at another guy in the bathroom at all it is awkward.

Word. It's bad enough that I have to look at the darn thing without anyone else using it as a conversation starter.

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