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Cultural differences pet care

Started by Bari Jo, April 01, 2018, 08:12:05 AM

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Bari Jo

I'm visiting Mexico City for a bit over a week.  My sister has a dog and it's super happy and as well cared for as my own.  This is what I'm used to, and expect.  There are pet stores all over the city within walking distance, everything is pet friendly too.  The park across the street has dozens of dogs playing off leash at any given time.  So I'm expecting the same care i see back home with pets here.  The neighbor went out of town for five days and left large bowls of water and food for her dog, and left her home alone.  I see her crying and howling for attention every day.  As an animal lover I'm making inquiries about laws and a Humane Society to call.  While yes there is, this is also considered okay to do with your pet, even though rude.  Argh, cultural differences.

Bari Jo
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10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
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AnonyMs

People mistreat animals everywhere. I don't think one case means much.

Not sure reporting it's going to do much good for the dog though. If they remove it from the neighbours care it's probably not going to have a happy ending.

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KathyLauren

The minimum standard for pet care is pretty minimal.  As far as most Humane Societies and SPCAs are concerned, if the animal has food, water and shelter, all is good.  A dog's emotional and social needs are not considered.  They'll tell you it is abusive but not illegal.

Some places are slowly improving legislation.  Here in NS, they passed a (basically unenforceable) law prohibiting dogs from being chained outside for more than 12 consecutive hours.  Anyone wanting to report a violation has to observe the neighbour's property for 12 hours continuously!
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Bari Jo

That neighbor came back after five nights out.  Cleans up the mess, walked the dog, pet her for a bit, then went out for a late night.  The dog has been crying for hours.  Pet owners like this should never be allowed to care for a living thing.  This makes me so mad.  I'm here petting my sisters dog and letting her sleep under the covers with me while this is going on.  If interested.  My own dog has a live in sitter while I'm away, plus has day care during the day.  No way in heck would I treat an animal like this neighbor is.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Bari Jo

This topic is still taking over my every thought.  I havent seen the dog now in 24 hours and I'm used to seeing as the neighbors window.  I keep thinking the worst.  I hear no cries anymore either.  Granted the owners are home now so maybe the dog is no longer sad.  The worst thoughts keep coming up, then I feel like I failed the dog.  I should be enjoying my trip, but I'm a wreck now.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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AnneK

A dog being outside all the  time is not the problem.  After all, they are fully capable of doing so.  However, they need some things, such as adequate food, water, shelter and exercise.  I've had dogs most of my life and know how to look after them.  One of my neighbours has a Bernese Mountain Dog.  He loves the winter cold and snow, but suffers in the summer heat.  He'd be quite capable of living outside all year, provided he had adequate shelter.  On the other hand, another neighbour has a large dog, with short fur.  They often leave her outside for long periods in very cold weather, without shelter.  It hurts to hear her crying to be let in.  So, all in all, it depends on the dog and the proper care of them, as to whether it's appropriate to leave them outside for long periods of time.
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Bari Jo

No, this dog is kept indoors.  I usually see it looking out.  Since the people have been back the blinds are drawn, can't see anything.  Before their trip when they were here with the dog, the blinds were not drawn.  Thanks for reminding what minimal care is though.  I'm still hoping this one has that.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Bari Jo

Whew!  I have eyewitness proof the dog is okay, Yay!  Now I can pull myself together and enjoy the rest of this trip.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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MaryT

I think that all cultures are intrinsically compassionate towards animals.  In some places, poverty, lack of appropriate education or desperation may lead to neglect that is less likely in affluent societies. 

I have only witnessed one act of cruelty in which culture or ethnicity had any connection at all.  Many years ago in the Caprivi Strip, in what is now Namibia, some women tortured a dog as I passed by.  One of the women loudly said in English "white people don't like it when we do this."  I hurried away so that there would be no more reason to hurt the dog.  However, it had nothing to do with the people of Caprivi being normally cruel to animals.  The area was then under the control of apartheid South Africa, and many people felt that they were being treated worse than the administrators' family pets.  The cruelty was therefore a political protest, not a cultural norm.

Britain calls itself a nation of animal lovers but cruelty and neglect still occur.  A guard dog at a tyre outlet near where I live barked at me every time I walked past, in all weathers, night and day.  I greeted it and felt sorry for it being out in the cold and rain by itself.   A few weeks ago, Britain had the worse freeze that I can remember.  For the first time, my home's pipes froze and dripping water formed columns rather than icicles.   I thought of the guard dog.  "It is dead", I said to myself.  I must have been right, as I have never seen it again and nothing barks when I walk past.

In Britain there are many street beggars with dogs.  While I was in an Oxford bed-and-breakfast some years ago, I knew that a beggar and his dog were sitting on the pavement outside.  As I lay in bed, I heard a commotion.  A dog screamed more than howled and a man wailed "you've killed him."  A passing drunk had kicked the dog to death.

I'm glad that the animal you were worried about turned out to be okay.
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Kylo

I'm fairy sure in all cultures there are some people who abuse animals, as well as people who treat their pets with more care than other human beings.
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