Tomorrow is going to be my first day out in the public view I an going to a place where I am not known I will be fully  dressed and have my heels on. my wife has insisted that I do this if I am to lead  this life style before we separate and go our own ways, we have talked about this for some time as I have not been able to satisfy her needs for the past 6yrs. I am scared in case I make a fool of my self she will be with me to guide me and also get me ready

Good luck.  That first time in public is tough.  The more you go out the easier it gets.  Just dress correctly for the place you are going so that you fit in with your surroundings.  Very nice that your wife is helping.  Just don't expect to much for the first time.

Julie