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What's your sexuality?

Started by ladytiffielou, February 22, 2018, 01:56:11 AM

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Shy

Straight female. :)

Peace and love and all that good stuff,

Sadie
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Coyotesdawn

Well, because I'm bigender I don't even know if the conventual sexualities are necessarily applicable. 

I am always attracted to women no matter what gender I currently am experiencing.  I love women as a maleish person and also when I am a woman.  The same goes for nonbinary people.
With men it's a bit more complicated; I'm infrequently attratcted to men in woman mode (but it does happen), but when I'm in male mode it gets strange.  I know my attraction to men is absolutely not heterosexual, but I can't exactly call myself gay because I never identify as a gay man.  So, formulating a single word for that attraction hits a roadblock.
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November Fox

I'm bi.

But I took a good while figuring that out. In the past life I was straight.
So after I came out, it made sense to call myself gay. I had no interest in women.

Being on T changed most of my way of looking at the world including women.
I'm mostly into women now and still interested in men - in a purely theoretical way - the thought of being with a man "again" after the delusion I went through, makes me uncomfortable.
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judithlynn

After more than 5 years on HRT, I started out very much as Lesbian, although when I transitioned before i was living in a Polyl relationship with a bi-sexual older couple, so I was probably bi-sexual.

These days after 5 years on HRT and interestingly since having Micronised Progesterone added to my treatment regime I am now what I consider to be mixed, as I am sexually interested in relationship with a dominant man, where I fulfil  the role of a submissive partner, but I am much more romantically into relationships with women, either CIS or Transwomen.

However with women, I like them to be soft butch (cis women where I am the submissive one in the relationship), or other femme transwomen.

JudithLynn
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TranSketch

Technically straight as I still have a male body etc but as a female I'd be lesbian, I don't really know if I can truly classify what I am because of being TG it's a confusing crossroads.
Life is fleeting, so may as well kick back and pull up a chair.
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Maria77

I've been in a long term (15 years!) relationship with a big bruiser of a man.  But I can be attracted to about any type of person.  I have had crushes on butch lebians, gay men, straight women, straight men,  FtM, MtF, you name it.   To me, vaginas and penises are both not so great looking anyhow, and are only so much flesh.  The person, I suppose is more important than genitalia.  So I guess I am pansexual when it comes down to it. 
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Laurel D

Quote from: PollyQMcLovely on February 27, 2018, 09:19:07 PM
My sexuality is purely theoretical.


A part of me feels that way too. I have a theoretical sexuality since I definitely not having sex with anyone. I have romantic interest in women. But my sexual fantasies are always about men as of late.


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CAB78

Good question! I'm feminine, attracted to women and like being submissive.

Sex and relationships is the main area I've received counselling for over the years and ultimately is what lead to my acceptance of being a trans woman. Since accepting who I am, being more feminine and starting HRT I have also started to have fantasies about guys with me as a woman. It's extremely rare for me to be attracted to a guy but it does happen now.

It's all a bit complicated, isn't it? Although I want sex until I've had surgery I would rather cuddle and kiss, the disconnect between how I appear and behave is huge. Hoping HRT will fix that; my psychologist doesn't get why I'm in a rush ;D


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MaryT

I'm not a "hunter" and have never propositioned anyone.  I've tried sex with women who made the first move, but I couldn't keep an erection, and they seemed to take it personally.  I enjoyed trying to pleasure them orally, though.  I've never socialised with gay guys and I used to be afraid of most males because I was beaten up so much in school. 

After realising that sex with women was a waste of time for me, my fantasies were all about passive sex with men but I've never been approached by a man in that way.
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ReplacementSarah

Bisexual, though in actual practice I've only ever dated women. The main problem is that I have no interest in being with men while presenting male myself... I'd want to with a guy who treats me like a woman in every way, as well as having the proper equipment for heterosexual interfacing.  ;)

Of course I'm married to the most wonderful woman I ever met, so as long as she still wants me, I'm strictly a hersexual.  :D
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TicTac

I thought bisexual but nope. I am only attracted to Women so I guess I am a lesbian. On a side note I have never been in a relationship or have done the sexy time so I guess its just speculation. However there is no room for experimentation  because I only plan on dating someone I know that I will be with for the rest of my life.
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Violets

Quote from: Christy Lee on February 22, 2018, 04:01:06 PM
i am sexually attracted to men, but feel more romantically attracted to women, i think as a long term partner i would end up with a woman who accepts that i am not a guy, i am a trans woman and therefor does not want that role of a guy in the relationship, i never have

I'm the same. I love being with women romantically, but I have no interest in them sexually.


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naa

I'm Bi.  But I'm not interested in starting any relationships till I get my life sorted out, and sex is a very low priority, especially since blockers have reduced my sex drive.  So yeah, Bi, but not that it matters in my case.
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