Quote from: LilyRobinson241092 on May 01, 2018, 08:42:28 AM
Hey,
So after a bad bout with my mental health which keeps deteriorating I am trying to get the NHS to fund facial feminisation surgery for me. I hate to be one of those girls but I seriously do not pass without it and the constantly being gendered as male is really getting to me.
Anyway I have been scouring NHS England resources to find their exact policy on the matter as I know it is an uphill battle to get them to fund FFS. I've basically got enough information (some of it very hard to find - I wonder why) where I can practically quote the NHS's policies word and gospel on the matter. Basically, I can put forward a strong case via my GP and although I was discharged from Porterbrook GIC over a year ago they have said they will be more than happy to provide backing evidence if need be in a very helpful conversation over the phone. They said at this point though it should go through my GP.
So strong case aside the one issue I have is since GRS I have put on some weight. I used to be on the heavy side of healthy and now I am according to the NHS and BMI indicators obese. The NHS guideline is clear that for funding to be awarded I need to be 27 or below.
The irritating thing is, I'm not even obese. I wouldn't call myself thin but I am in the range of being medium build and I tried the BMI for both male and female, both classify me as obese.
I just worry with the strong case I have in other places my local CCG is just gonna use my BMI as a convenient excuse to refuse funding, given I meet all their other criteria.
Anyone else had experience with this?
I'm sorry to hear you're experiencing this. It sounds especially frustrating because, as you say, you're not obese and, as others say, BMI isn't much of an indicator here.
Still, if you need to lose a little weight before surgery, there's no reason you can't take care of that relatively quickly.
Also, while I haven't had quite the same struggle, I can relate. After I became very depressed about a year and a half ago, I quit exercising and, although I probably ate fewer calories, I started eating a lot of sugary foods, simple carbs, and the like. Whenever something bad happened, I headed for the drive-thru for a little fast food feast. I wound up gaining 15 pounds or so, all of which went to the wrong areas.
Over the past month and a half, I've started exercising and eating toward losing the unwanted additional weight. Weight loss can be tricky, in that your weight can really fluctuate depending on the time of day, etc. Still, overall I've lost weight at a healthy pace, I sleep better, and I have some of the energy back.
I'm not a dietician or training expert, and even if I were, I couldn't recommend a regimen via an Internet forum. What's worked for me so far may not work for you. I just know that once I started eating well again, I had more energy, etc. and it was easier for me to sleep and exercise. The one bit of general advice that absolutely has worked for me: Get the eating in control, and the exercise and weight loss come more easily.
Best wishes,
Veronica