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Started by MeTony, May 25, 2018, 01:37:51 PM

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MeTony

May 25, 2018, 01:37:51 PM
It finally sunk in to my husband's head that I am transgender. Feels like hanging on a thread now. I don't know what will happen now. He started saying my birth name instead of "mom" as he has always done until now. He started talking about moving out.

I guess my oldest son heared our conversation on the phone. He lies in bed and won't come up. My husband went to sleep when I got home from work.

He is pissed. He feels betrayed.

*sigh*


Tony
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blackcat

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May 25, 2018, 01:43:31 PM
When did you tell him? Do you mind sharing more of your story if you are comfortable?

Asking because I'm going through the same thing with my partner. He was in denial for weeks, and then BAM, it just hit him, and now he's so angry.

It's so painful and difficult.

Understandably, everyone has to go through the stages of acceptance...
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MeTony

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May 25, 2018, 01:45:56 PM
I told him in october last year. He took it well at that time. Now he has been thinking. He asked me straight forward today and I told him what I felt and why I did...could not tell him earlier.


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Kylo

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May 25, 2018, 02:25:59 PM
I would hope for the best but prepare for the worst. My relationship did not survive it either, I now have a house mate not a partner.
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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krobinson103

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May 26, 2018, 12:45:09 PM
Quote from: Kylo on May 25, 2018, 02:25:59 PM
I would hope for the best but prepare for the worst. My relationship did not survive it either, I now have a house mate not a partner.

I'm in the same boat. We may not have even that in a year or so, tension is high...
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Donna

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May 26, 2018, 02:56:39 PM
Sorry to hear that Tony. Hope something can be worked out but if not you have to do what is right for you. Good luck and best wishes
December 2015 noticed strange feelings moving in
December 2016 started to understand what my body has been telling me all my life, started wearing a bra for comfort full time
Spiro and dutastricide 2017
Mid year 2017 Started dressing and going out shopping etc by myself
October T 14.8 / 456
Came out to my wife in December 2017
January 2018 dressing androgenes and still have face hair
Feb 2018 Dressing full time in female clothing out at work and to friends and family, clean shaven and make up
Living full time March 1 2018
March T 7.4 / 236
April 19th eligard injection, no more Testosterone
June 19th a brand new freshly trained HRT and transgender care doctor for me. Only a one day waiting list to become her patient 😍

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