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Poll: How many require surgery on their path?

Started by Devlyn, May 26, 2018, 05:45:27 PM

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Do you personally need any kind of surgery on your journey?

Yes
47 (94%)
No
1 (2%)
Other (Explain)
2 (4%)

Total Members Voted: 50

Devlyn

Just trying to put a number on how many people need some kind of surgery vs how many don't.

I didn't need it. Ended up in surgery anyway.

Hey, I'm an easy sell!  :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn
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Doreen

Well.. need any 'more' surgery, or needed surgery in the path in the past?  ??? ::)
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Devlyn

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Doreen

Explanation:  Its a boy.  No, its a girl.  No its part way inbetween.  That is me.

Surgeries? 

1974 - 1992: Some stuff when I was young that I have no recollection of. (I have the internal scarring to prove it).
1990: Left Inguinal Hernia repair.  Most likely they removed a mass that was there too. (It wasn't intestinal.. it was.. something else)
1993:  Radial Karatotomy (myopic vision)
1995:  CTA
2001:  GCS with Sanguan Kunaporn.. fixed the mess I had before, mostly.
later: other minor work & repairs for scars, accidents, etc.
2017:  FFS with Dr. Cardenas.  Fixed my genetic heritage, not my hormonal load on my face.
2018: Pelvic Laparoscopy... an utter failure at identifying my internal structures for diagnostic purposes.

After?  Still need some most likely, to fix some residual ambiguity and cramps and stuff.  Also need neurosurgery, but that has nothing to do with all this.

I'm tired of surgeons, needles, and medical practice (lol) in general at this point.
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natalie.ashlyne

I really want SRS and VFS those are my 2 top picks than a BA I would like FFS but would settle with those first
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HappyMoni

I need breast surgery for sexuality reasons and want hair transplant for gender reasons.
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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emma-f

Yes, definitely. Having had breast augmentation last week, I know that I need more. I thought FFS, BBL and GRS, in that chronological order, but I'm now thinking GRS might be my priority
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Megan.

I've had FUE transplants and an abdominoplasty (kinda related to the whole transition thing) to date.

GRS is in the works, FFS is a possible future option, but no BA for me, the boob fairy seems to like me on HRT [emoji5]

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Anne Blake

If by surgery you mean any procedure that gets past your skin;

Electrolysis, yes, most of us go through that but I have another round this week and it is on my mind. This process takes so long, is so expensive and painful, but for most is an absolute necessity.

Hair transplants, had my second round at the beginning of March and like where I am now (or at least will when it grows out.). This was so big for me to be able to get out and about without a wig. My compassionate sympathies to those that can not go this way.

GCS, last fall and it was the biggie to feel who I am.

I am having a consult with facial team to see what they can do to help. May go that direction but am not being driven there as strongly as I was for the previous three.
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Perry

@Megan.  -  The "boob fairy" liked me too, that is why I'll be pursuing top surgery!
Integrity has no need of rules.  -Albert Camus

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HappyMoni

That boob fairy never hit my neighborhood!
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Devlyn

psssst..you have to put a training bra under your pillow.   :laugh: ;D
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HappyMoni

Wow I'm the sucker who fell for that tooth under the pillow scam.
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Megan.

Quote from: Perry on May 28, 2018, 01:31:11 PM
@Megan.  -  The "boob fairy" liked me too, that is why I'll be pursuing top surgery!
Just a darn shame that science hasn't figured out the body swap thing yet! [emoji6]

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Maybebaby56

Oh Lord, I hope there is no more surgery in my future. After FFS, SRS, then a BA and hair transplants, I am surgeried-out. My body has taken a beating, not to mention my bank account.

I would love to have a nice round butt, instead of that flat, flabby thing that follows me around, but I just can't see another surgery and the recovery from it.

I'm also not real happy with the outcome of my SRS thus far, and actually scheduled a consultation with another surgeon for a revision, but at this point it's just a fact-finding mission, a second opinion. And it's months off, so there is time to change my mind. As Dr. McGinn told me, "You don't seem to tolerate surgery well."  She's damn right.  I'm getting too old for this stuff.

~Terri
"How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives" - Annie Dillard
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Charlie Nicki

Yes. HRT by itself won't give me the look and confidence I dream of.
Latina :) I speak Spanish, English and a bit of Portuguese.
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epvanbeveren

I "needed" my GRS I had 7 months ago. I am probably going to look for BA later in life, giving the hormones some more time. FFS is a scary thought that I am not sure off yet.
I am a K. MacPhee girl, re-born on October 4 2017 in Raleigh/Durham NC. USA
I was AMAB on May 6 1963 in Dordrecht, the Netherlands.

OUT and proud - 2014
HRT - 2015
Legal - 2016
GRS - 2017

Full Time - 01/01/2015:
first day (01) of new life (01), '15 = opposite of 51 (my age at the time)

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SeptagonScars

I've already gone through most of my journey and had the most important (for me) surgery already, which was my mastectomy. But I checked the "yes" box cause I still need a hysto as well.

I'm dysphoric about having those internal organs for what they can do, meaning giving me surprise periods despite being on testosterone (has happened) also cause it's extra likely to happen again now that I have to medicate my vag with local estrogen. And second reason for possibly making me pregnant, cause I do and like having the kind of sex that can lead to that but I really don't want to end up with that kind of consequence ever. I do want to be on T forever, so I've no need or wish to keep the ovaries for that reason either. I'm more or less constantly stressed out about still having those parts, so that definitely feels like a need to take care of.

I definitely want some more masculinising surgeries like a chin implant (FMS?) and lipo on my hip area (mansculpting), but I can't possibly afford that. So I'll just call that an impossible dream and move on from it, and try not to think about it as a need, for the reason it not being achievable for me.

But I don't feel any need to get genital surgery. I used to think I did, but then I changed my mind and started being completely fine with what I already have, even appreciating it a lot. If I would look into srs again, it would be in a far distant future, if ever.

I've not needed or had any kind of non-transition related surgeries in my life.
Mar. 2009 - came out as ftm
Nov. 2009 - changed my name to John
Mar. 2010 - diagnosed with GID
Aug. 2010 - started T, then stopped after 1 year
Aug. 2013 - started T again, kept taking it since
Mar. 2014 - top surgery
Dec. 2014 - legal gender marker changed to male
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Jul. 2018 - came out as cis woman and began detransition
Sep. 2018 - stopped taking T and changed my name to Laura
Oct. 2018 - got new ID-card

Medical Detransition plans: breast reconstruction surgery, change legal gender back to female.
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warlockmaker

Go for all you feel needed and can afford. Had FFS, BA and GRS. Scheduling some revision for vagina. Thinking about a new nose. Keeping really fit and  weekly facials, botox every 4 months.
When we first start our journey the perception and moral values all dramatically change in wonderment. As we evolve further it all becomes normal again but the journey has changed us forever.

SRS January 21st,  2558 (Buddhist calander), 2015
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Kylo

At the very least I required my chest sorting out which has been done, and the surgeon did a marvellous job. My issues with that area are gone forever. I might opt for further surgeries in future. I am going to wait the rest of the year out while I get a few other things in order before any more of that.
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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