Autumn...When I came out it was like the world was being lifted off my shoulders. When I started HRt it was an answer to half century old prayers. Now that I am two years down the road, coming out has given me opportunities to find others like me, make new acquaintances that have the same day to day delemna's as I do. I hope clarity comes to you as it has come to me. Pride festivals are coming later this month and next, give a great opportunity to show our detractors that we too are human beings, with feelings, aspirations, dreams, and rights. In the case of Tacoma 2017, that brought out 17,000 attendees. The road is not paved by rose petals but at least we are making progress in finding allies in the community at large. Good wishes on continuing your dreams and welcome to Susan's Place. I think taking your girlfriend with you to the therapist is a good idea. If you have any trouble finding resources send me a PM and perhaps I can help as I am the inks administrator and we are still in the process of creating the best resource for transgender information on the internet.