I find I'm transitioning fast and my hair is really holding me back. Its about 5" long on top and 4" in back (I had a normal fade guy hair cut last november and haven't done anything to it since). Can you get them at a hair salon where they stay in and you can wash them with your normal hair? Are they expensive? I tried a wig but it's too hot for that and I don't like the way they look. I look better with my real hair just put back. It's almost long enough to tie but needs another inch or two. I really don't want to get it cut into a short girls hair cut because I want hair down to my elbows ultimately.