I am kinda new to it. scared and confused. just cannot deny it anymore. secretly dress. nobody knows except a counselor I talked to. they said I am transgender, and I will have to face it sooner or later. I am married with children. never been a an alpha male, but just started feeling so feminine. thinking back, I guess there were always signs, but I did manly things and fooled myself as well as others.

Hi Samantha,
It won't be easy but I hope that everything works out well for you.

thanks mary

Welcome to the club samantha.  Scared and confused? We've ALL been there.

Quote from: samantha09 on July 30, 2018, 06:27:03 PM
I am kinda new to it. scared and confused. just cannot deny it anymore. secretly dress. nobody knows except a counselor I talked to. they said I am transgender, and I will have to face it sooner or later. I am married with children. never been a an alpha male, but just started feeling so feminine. thinking back, I guess there were always signs, but I did manly things and fooled myself as well as others.

@samantha09 
Dear Samantha
Thank you for your very first posting here on Susan's Place.   PLEASE KNOW that I am not trying to hjack your thread and posting but FIRST THING FIRST.  Other members will be coming along that can possibly provide answers to your concerns and questions. This is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances. 
Be aware that there are lots of members here that can identify with the issues that you brought up in your introduction posting.

WELCOME to Susan's Place.  You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you have signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....

***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

Please come in and get involved at your own pace.  Be sure to look at the Links that I posted below, there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Please pay particular attention to the LINKS IN RED .... they have the answers many questions that our new members may have.
Again, Welcome.
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Hi Samantha 

Welcome to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M

Welcome Samantha!


Chrissy

Welcome Samantha!

This can be a scary time and there are a few other people here (myself included) that are going through similar circumstances.

I only realized a few months ago myself. Just like you, the more I think about things in the past the more it all clicks and makes sense.

I hope that you have support in your life to help you though this.

- hugs -

Hi Samantha 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to Susan's Place, I'm Jessica!
I know I was scared and confused when I first joined.  Through the support from therapy and here at Susan's I've become much more accepting of who I am and have seen it isn't the end of the world, life is ok with who I am.

I see that the shining North Star @Alaskan Danielle has greeted you with some very helpful links. I know when I joined they came in very handy in helping me learn and share.

Hugs and smiles, Jess