Does your Husband / Wife or Boyfriend / Girlfriend know that you crossdress? If so what do they think of it?
Also did you meet your Husband / Wife or Boyfriend / Girlfriend while crossdressing or not and at where?

As for my case yes, my girlfriend knows that I crossdress and she is very supportive about it. In fact I met my girlfriend at Victoria's Secret a month ago which was my very 1st time entering the store. She helped me out a lot that day from measuring my cup size to picking the perfect bra and matching panties by seen if it actually lokks good on me or not and was also the cashier too. I had a amazing 1st experience at Victora's Secret that day I asked her out on a dinner that day. Which during the dinner convo I knew it was a instant connection.

My husband knows. Been dressing as a guy for 10 years. I told him I am transgender last year.

He has not said anything about me dressing like a guy.

Keeping such a thing secret from someone close to you cannot be easy. I suspect that oft times the significant other suspects or knows it even if the person hasn't told them.

Quote from: leopard123 on August 01, 2018, 12:09:33 AM
Does your Husband / Wife or Boyfriend / Girlfriend know that you crossdress? If so what do they think of it?
Also did you meet your Husband / Wife or Boyfriend / Girlfriend while crossdressing or not and at where?

As for my case yes, my girlfriend knows that I crossdress and she is very supportive about it. In fact I met my girlfriend at Victoria's Secret a month ago which was my very 1st time entering the store. She helped me out a lot that day from measuring my cup size to picking the perfect bra and matching panties by seen if it actually lokks good on me or not and was also the cashier too. I had a amazing 1st experience at Victora's Secret that day I asked her out on a dinner that day. Which during the dinner convo I knew it was a instant connection.

That is awesome.

My wife knows and I have dressed up (skirts, stockings, heels/flats) for her a few times, have only worn makeup infront of her once - she didn't like it. She knows I dress by myself when I'm working at home.  I only have one dress atm and I hate it (hey it was a learning curve learn't quickly and cheaply), I have studied which dresses will work properly on me and have a long list I'd like to buy - not sure my wife is ready to see me in a dress, maybe in a couple of months. Having said that I have 2 nighties (short sleeve cotton) I wear all the time and they are basically like t-shirt dresses so...

Sonja.

My girlfriend is teaching me how to do makeup.


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Good morning, I have been wearing lingerie for ever and panties exclusively most my life.  My wife was aware before we got married and close friends and family know I do not wear typical mens underwear.  Some are more feminine than others but you would never find me in a boxer or cotton brief.  I do wear nightgowns every night and only my wife and sister know.  I also have switched to  narrow strap tanks and everyone sees them. 

My main concern is not to embarrass or shock anyone and so far I have not had any issues if someone unexpentently finds me in some sort of woman's lingerie. 

She doesn't know.... I used to Cross dress when I was a teen, using my mother's dresses and heels. I always felt so good wearing women's clothing I stopped when one day I was talking to my girlfriend about her opinion on men dressing up like women, she pretty much told me those aren't people but dumb animals that don't have dignity and not normal. I'm currently living with another girl who else homophobic and told me she will kill me if I turned out gay.

Well, in my current case yes. At first she was ok with it. However once she saw the large amount of clothing and accessories she kinda freaked out. She said that she thought that my lingerie and stuff were kept from ex girlfriends and next thing i knew all my stuff was trashed. She knew very early on that i loved wearing feminine clothing and makeup, the odd thing to me is she knows i still wear makeup and doesent seem to have an issue with that. I openly have my own makeup and unless she wants to use a certain shade doesent bother it. She also seems to except other feminine needs i have devoloped through the years but only to a point. For instance, i have a natral large B Cup almost C cup chest. In pictures where my head was cut off I have been mistaken as a female in coments. My cheast is devoloped in shape and feel very much female. She loves treating them as such and after a short time started to treat other parts of my body as female also. However once she saw I needed more in that area she became worried and has all but stopped touching me in other ways but still shows my chest alot of attention. So im confused as to how she really feels about it all. She says she dont want to see me as anything diffrent then her man and the use of larger items to fulfill my needs, she is not ok with. Yet, she doesent mind using smaller aids. Once again i dont get the difference in that. So yes she knows but im not sure where she stands in the spectrum of excepting things. Other then this area we click like ive never felt before. We are very loving and supportive of each other in all other ways

My ex wife knew and we divorced . My ex girlfriend of 7 years did not know or suspect. Ive learned to be very very careful about every aspect of my life. I think perception of mankind is changing but find that females for the most part are hard wired to except ->-bleeped-<- and cross dressing as long as its not their partner doing it or that way. But many eventually do see you diffrent and eventually find a male that they do not see as effeminate even if they themselves have had or enjoy being with other females.

Other then my chest i am very masculine in appearance. Dare i say very attractive as a male even with my chest , so i think for me this aspect is accepted for a short time because of that fact. Ive tried to find a transfem person to date but have not been successful because the few M to F people ive met seem to immediately repel any type of relationship as soon as they realize im " not all male". Im not attracted to males so its genetic women or trans women for me. I know this is on and off topic but as a whole think it raises other questions that seem to be over looked in many topics. Im wondering if anyone else has faced these same issues and how it turned out.

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Quote from: HelenStrife1 on August 14, 2018, 12:35:22 AM
She doesn't know.... I used to Cross dress when I was a teen, using my mother's dresses and heels. I always felt so good wearing women's clothing I stopped when one day I was talking to my girlfriend about her opinion on men dressing up like women, she pretty much told me those aren't people but dumb animals that don't have dignity and not normal. I'm currently living with another girl who else homophobic and told me she will kill me if I turned out gay.

At the end of the day, one has to be true to themselves.
Its better to be alone and who you are then surrounded by 1000 strangers that pretend to know you.

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I've been married 25+ years and my wife has known for about 20 years. She is coolly tolerant of it. Only in the last year or two has she stopped asking me to take out my earrings (studs, no hoops). She has never seen me in a dress, skirt or make up, but a lot of the clothes I wear are adrogenous/feminine. The one time she saw me with lip color I was asked to remove it in no uncertain terms.

I understand her reluctance about it, but it does hurt that a large part of who I am has to be kept under wraps. When I have had a little to drink or am very tired, she has complained that my gestures, expressions, walking and speech become too feminine, so I am always on my guard. This could be a contributor to my high blood pressure. 

My wife not only knows but she also helps me shop for clothes, fixes my makeup, and helps to wax my legs!

MY wife knew before we were married.  I don't hide my large collection of panties nor do I hide the makeup.  It doesn't bother her but she is not really into it.  I wear my panties in front of her but don't do makeup in front of her.  I love tight stretch jeans and I wear them in public.  That bothers her but doesn't bother her so much that it causes trouble between us.  I wish she was more into it and would help me with makeup and have fun with it in private.  That's not going to happen.  I do feel fortunate though that she accepts it as much as she does.