Hi Denise, nice to meet you!
Thank you for sharing with us. With regards to #3, I think it's a very interesting question. My instinctual answer would be "of course", but after thinking about it, I'm not sure.
The process of realizing I'm transgender and becoming who I want to be has been an amazing journey. It's true; I have hurt a lot, cried, lost people I love, suffered lots of judgement... but I have gained and learned so much about myself and the world, and my friends. I'm not sure I would trade it for anything.
Hazel