Thanks Faith.

I went into it without knowing either if the insurance would pay or have an idea what the cost could turn out to be. Didn't care, those things had to go and if I got strapped with a big bill I would just have to pay it off as I could. Insurance has come through though, will be 8 weeks come Thursday but they finally paid.
One of the final two surgery/hospital bills came through today leaving this much unpaid so far by Blue Cross . . .
Insurance balance $2.82 (Professional Services)
Patient Balance $0.00
That's it for the surgery/hospital bill right now, Blue cross still owes two dollars and eighty two cents.

The primary insurance has paid on the post-op office visit leaving an $88 bill for Blue Cross. That appointment was 3 weeks after surgery so it will probably another 3 weeks from now before Blue cross gets to that. They have paid on every office visit so far so no reason to think they won't now. Just typically slow.
My insurance has also been paying all the costs for the HRT too. I've never checked with them to find out if they cover GRS. Given my age it's pretty doubtful I'll ever get to that even if they do cover it. Right now after waiting decades the progress made this year with the HRT and orchi is wonderful and I'm pretty content. Will sit back and see what the next year or so brings.