Hi. well as my name says, im a 21 year old hetroflexible cis male. i joined the site as i am an ally and big lbgtqia+ supporter (but thats something that shouldnt be special, i wish everyone was) and i joined in the hopes to always be educated and understanding of what lbgtqia people go through. hell , theres a significant chance i could end up with a girlfriend who is trans. or a friend. and even not, its just good for me to know these things. how ever i am quite a conflicted and guilt ridden person. i always try and be a good person and do whats right and morals. but sometimes people misunderstand and i look an ->-bleeped-<-. or maybe i am one. but i dont want to be one (just putting this stuff here to get out the way, not to make people sorry for me in particular). i do have anxiety and ptsd that can make me very socially awkward. but my goal is to work around this and work with people and get to know how i can help, or just the right thing for everyone. so if welcomed i will be around here regularly. if im not welcomed here, i understand. people do need there safe spaces. anyway hi all. i look foward to getting to know you all.   

Heeey, calm down
You've already introduced yourself year ago here As you can see, everyone welcome you and glad to have ally So don't worry
And welcome again?

Welcome to our little haven in the world

ah lot happend in this year and i couldnt remember ... i am calm, just very ... explanatory? anyway my apologies, thats why i said kinda new.   

Quote from: Cismalli on September 26, 2018, 06:25:25 AM
Hi. well as my name says, im a 21 year old hetroflexible cis male. i joined the site as i am an ally and big lbgtqia+ supporter (but thats something that shouldnt be special, i wish everyone was) and i joined in the hopes to always be educated and understanding of what lbgtqia people go through. hell , theres a significant chance i could end up with a girlfriend who is trans. or a friend. and even not, its just good for me to know these things. how ever i am quite a conflicted and guilt ridden person. i always try and be a good person and do whats right and morals. but sometimes people misunderstand and i look an ->-bleeped-<-. or maybe i am one. but i dont want to be one (just putting this stuff here to get out the way, not to make people sorry for me in particular). i do have anxiety and ptsd that can make me very socially awkward. but my goal is to work around this and work with people and get to know how i can help, or just the right thing for everyone. so if welcomed i will be around here regularly. if im not welcomed here, i understand. people do need there safe spaces. anyway hi all. i look foward to getting to know you all.  

@Cismalli   
Dear Cismalli:
Thank you for sharing your thoughts here.... and writing your interesting re-introduction posting...

Here on Susan's Place.... all are welcome, those that want to transition and those that do not, either way please come in and share your thoughts.   If you want to explore transitioning this is the place to discover what is involved.

The good news is that because of your posting many of our members are now aware of your re-arrival here and you can be expecting them to share their thoughts with you relevant to you questions and concerns.

This is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with your situation as you feel free to share it.

I see that back on August 02, 2017, over a year ago,  that our lovely member  @Kendra  had already welcomed you here but please allow me to also warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place. 
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you had signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.

Even though you became a member back in 2017 and are probably aware of the rules here that Kendra provided to you last year, I have again included Important LINKS for your convenience that will tell you about Susan's Place.  Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

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thanks for the welcoming. however im a cis dude, i wont be transitioning to anything. as i stated i just want to be a better ally and supporter. i coudlnt find my old intro thread so thought i must not if introduced myself so i tried again

You don't have to transition to be here, what is important is that you be happy with who you are.  That is the whole point with transitioning after all.

Quote from: Cismalli on September 26, 2018, 09:02:02 AM
thanks for the welcoming. however im a cis dude, i wont be transitioning to anything. as i stated i just want to be a better ally and supporter. i coudlnt find my old intro thread so thought i must not if introduced myself so i tried again

@Cismalli
Dear Cismalli:
Your presence here is very much appreciated and your intentions to offer insights and your thoughts to those that may benefit from your experiences are most welcome.
Thank you again for desiring to get involved again in the Forums.   I will be eagerly looking for your posts and comment replies around the various threads here on the Forums.

Wishing you well and thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Danielle

(just wanted to clear up any confusion  ) thankyou, i look forward to participating more frequently, learning and helping.

Hi Cismalli 

Welcome back to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here again

Thank you for your support

Hugs

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