I'd say definitely go to someone trans friendly who will listen to you. I had problems with this myself and was actually refused treatment for being trans. I sourced an LGBT resource centre in the nearest city who had some contacts with trans friendly surgeons, and found someone who would take into account the research I had done myself and took seriously what I was experiencing of my own body (I had severe pelvic pain due to atrophy of the female organs). She was great, took out all the stuff, and the problem was solved.