Moni,
I use the VA except when the VA is too slow and I need help now, then I have to pay cash. It is probably not the same as using insurance but I had to get the doctor that sent them the script to change it before the pharmacy did. I don't know why it would effect the approval of meds but I can see where you would be concerned.
It seems like it never ends, that there is always one more place that has me listed with my old name or that pesky "M". Grr!
Take care babes.
Dietlind,
Going full time is probably a good cutoff point. My legal name change took forever with all the stuff I had to do and then waiting for a court date, it was almost a year and a half after going full time. I don't think that you have to go through all of that for some things though, like credit cards. Really, after male fail it becomes very inconvenient. Yes I can see that he is a member but he is not with you. You will need to apply for a one time visitor's pass. I can't count how many times I had a problem with it, even getting a drink with dinner and I was forty six when I got my name changed. The more you present female or the less you are able to present as male, the more important it becomes. The vacant look that people have when you hand them a card or id is priceless the first few times. Then the slightly annoyed look when you say, Yeah, that is me. is even better. It is like a knife in the chest when you have to tell them in front of whatever strangers may be there, Look, I am transgender okay. though. I have even had to give a lady my court approval for legal name change, she calls over her supervisor who looks at it and asks, So you are his legal guardian? I don't understand. Anyway, if you wait too long some issues are sure to come up.
Ja, fur immer.