Quote from: Sheila on April 03, 2008, 08:59:38 PM
I don't slight the man who wants to have a child. That is not what makes this so offensive. He is trying to say that he is a man and he is pregnant. I guess this statement is true but the facts are, he still has female organs and he can conceive just like any other female. I know that most "transmen" can't have the surgery and I understand that. That wasn't my point. If a "transwoman" didn't want to do anything to their fertility, would that be that a woman can sire children too. It has been done all ready. This is not news. This is tabloid fodder. I put the transmen and transwoman in quotes as I really don't like those terms as I think of them as men and women.
I fail to understand what does make it offensive.
And in response to some other posters, going to the media is not always a volentary thing, the media is an important tool to many who are facing discrimmination for some reason. Additionally, you have to consider that If he had not gone to the media (I don't know that he initiated it), would the media not have gone to him, and portrayed him, and transgendered people in a more negative light. The reason why he would appear on a show like Oprah would be to inform the public first hand, before they read the tabloids which would have portrayed him more negatively, while being in an environment (oprah's show) that will be generally nonabusive (Oprah tends to respect her guests).
Appearing in the media and on oprahs show and explaining things in a clear manner is far better than appearing on jerry springer and throwing chairs, for example.
I don't see what's wrong with transmen having babies if they want them, to me this is equivalant to how some MTF's decide to bank some or their sperm for later use.
I also don't see what's wrong with going to the media, we don't know him and don't know his reasons, and so I think it is a poor decision to judge others without the inside information, especially others in our own community. Exhibitionist? Come on,...
Posted on: April 04, 2008, 06:59:00 AM
Just wrote CBS a letter, it was mostly sarcastic and humorous. Will give a CSR a good laugh.