Well I must confess I have went through that as well. But the family thing is some years behind me now though so it doesn't bother me nearly as much. I like to go back and visit the neat times I experienced in my previous life, In memory I can't remember what I looked like back then so I have embodied those memories with what I imagined I would have looked like as a girl, fits quite well. But since I have known and experienced some this experience myself it pains me when I hear of others having gone through it as well, in some cases worst then I experienced. it happens to the folks out there to you know, but much more so frequent with us transe people.
Cindy