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Will transitioning nulify my 30 year marraige?

Started by Jenny1969, December 06, 2018, 03:27:51 AM

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Jenny1969

I just had a random thought the other day and cant seem to find a good answer.  I'm a trans woman and have been married to my cisgender wife for 30 years.  Once I am at the point that I can change the birth marker on my State and Federal identifications as well as my birth certificate will that may my marriage license/certificate invalid.  I mean at that point we will be two women living together is a state that does not recognize same sex marriage. (assuming of course that she sticks around) 

I'm seriously over thinking this I know. 

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Thanks

Jenny
Jenny :)

20 November 2018 Got off the fence. 3 December 2018 Initial consult and GD diagnoasis. 28 December 2018 started HRT. 14 Feb 2019 Started Spiro

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Chloe

"But it's no use now," thought poor Alice, "to pretend be two people!
"Why, there's hardly enough of me left to make one respectable person!"
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kk

That's unfortunate if it does; I can't say I'm versed in marriage law.  I'm lucky to live in Oregon where me and my girl are legal no matter what happens  ;D

I'd encourage you to not let that slow you down.  Even if it nullifies the paper contract, you and your wife can still live happily together.  I hope she sticks around!  30 years is a lot to toss out the window over a little thing like gender.
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tgchar21

Do you live outside the U.S.? If you don't, then same-sex marriage is legal nationwide - and even if that ruling isn't applied retroactively precedence still appears to show that transition of one of the partners does NOT nullify a marriage.
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Dani

Even if the law does not allow a marriage to be nullified, be prepared for a divorce. Only a few of us have accepting spouses.
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dee82

In New South Wales, Australia, the law used to mean the marriage was no longer valid after a legal transition with a change in the gender marker. But (thankfully) the law changed and now transitioning does not affect the legality of the union.
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Linde

Quote from: Dani on December 06, 2018, 07:18:41 PM
Even if the law does not allow a marriage to be nullified, be prepared for a divorce. Only a few of us have accepting spouses.

You are right, my marriage collapsed after almost 36 years!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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