Quote from: GingerVicki on December 12, 2018, 10:27:49 PM
Meh, I guess I could just go to Mexico. Kinda of a hassle though. I would rather get it done in the US. Not to discriminate but I'm not too young. I am in my 40s and can make these kinda of decisions without "Adult Supervision!"
I feel that I am being treated like a crazy person or a child with these guidelines. I believe that the guidelines themselves discrimination against people like myself. I am fully capable of making my own decisions. Does anyone else feel the same way?
edit: I should add that I don't see a therapist. I did informed consent.
Not really. Transition in it's many forms is a lot to take in. The doctors want to make sure that people are not going to regret it in the future. I believe this aspect is important because I feel if too many people regret the transition the government will step in and make things even worse. Look how the media is already trying to spin it that way.
Plus a therapist help me acclimate to the changes. I know we all wish we can snap our fingers and be done in a instant. I dreamed many nights to wake up and have the problem solved, but it is a process. It isn't to treat us as crazy. It's a diagnostic, to make sure there isn't another issue.
I went through the process and the time went by pretty quickly. I used the year to get voice training, remove my facial hair and save up the money for the surgery. I wouldn't have been able to get SRS any faster simply because it took me that long to squirrel away that much money.
I look at it like this, nothing worth anything is easy. You have to be willing to work for it. My suggestion is that the surgery is the cherry on top. It isn't everything. Your life isn't on pause during that year.

Quote from: TonyaW on December 12, 2018, 10:40:40 PM
Who's paying?
If its you fully, you may find a surgeon willing. If insurance, you'll need to jump through whatever hoops they hold up.
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Maybe, but a lot won't. My surgeon was absolute, I had to go through the process.