I have a question about going to bed.  When I go to bed I put on my nightdress and to be honest, I want a bust, I do not have one of my own, I wear stuffed bras.  So I go to bed with a bra on, otherwise I I'm flat chested and that's not what I want to be.  I realise that women don't wear bras in bed and I guess you might say it's not authentic.

I'm interested to know what others do about going to bed, do you worry about having a bust and wear a bra, or do you not care and are happy to be flat chested?

Thanks
Sally

Quote from: Sally Edwards77 on December 16, 2018, 03:11:25 PM
I have a question about going to bed.  When I go to bed I put on my nightdress and to be honest, I want a bust, I do not have one of my own, I wear stuffed bras.  So I go to bed with a bra on, otherwise I I'm flat chested and that's not what I want to be.  I realise that women don't wear bras in bed and I guess you might say it's not authentic.

I'm interested to know what others do about going to bed, do you worry about having a bust and wear a bra, or do you not care and are happy to be flat chested?

Thanks
Sally

@Sally Edwards77
Dear Sally:
It doesn't matter if you are a CD or a transitioning MTF, you have the option of doing what makes you feel comfortable and makes you feel good about yourself.

Well before I started HRT and begun to develop breasts of my own, like many transitioners and CD's I wore padded bras as much as possible considering that at work and many social events I was still presenting in male mode.   .... and yes I wore bras to bed as from time to time as well.   

As a CD you might want to consider eventually obtain some real breast-forms instead of stuffing your bras with "whatever"... but of course that is up to you and your financial situation.

Now that I have my own breasts, as with most cis-women, I do not wear a bra to bed....  I let my twin-girls breath and be free for the night.

Wishing you well,
Danielle

My cis wife often wears a bra to bed. Not sure that there is a hard and fast rule.

I just wear a T-Shirt, and shorts.  During hot summer nights I wear nothing at all.  I would not like it to have the restriction of a bra when I am in bed, and if you don't have real breasts that thing might slide up or down your body.
I also like to touch my breasts once in a while, and a bra would hinder me in doing this.

Yes I do this.  Sometimes.

It always make me feel good and cozy when I wear something that feels like breasts when I go to sleep.

Yet I do not always do this.

I guess I like to mix it up 

I'll wear a bra with a deep vee neck PJ set to bed. They are sized to wear without forms.
There are a bazillion bra styles, I'm sure a few will work for you 

I really need to wear a bra during the day, but in the evening, the support of the lacy bust of a baby doll nightie is adequate.

I wear nipple pumps during the night, as part of my enhancement regime. 

Quote from: valerie anne on December 22, 2018, 03:39:53 PM
I really need to wear a bra during the day, but in the evening, the support of the lacy bust of a baby doll nightie is adequate.

I wear nipple pumps during the night, as part of my enhancement regime.

How do you wear nipple pumps?  Aren't they to big and hard?

Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 03:49:27 PM
How do you wear nipple pumps?  Aren't they to big and hard?

Yes they are!

They latch onto me hard and I am desparate to take them off in the morning. But then I am really titty and need a bra.