Just wondering what dildos people find easy to use on their partners/comfortable for their partners to use on them etc. I don't want to use the dildo in a harness, so if you could let me know your experiences guiding them by hand that would be great! 

Just a couple I'm considering getting are: Fun Factory Magnum or Bandito, Sinfive burgono, Tantus Silk large (but obviously willing to consider others) 

What features of a dildo should I look for?

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I happen to find glass ones to be the best they can be heated or cooled to specific temperatures they go in a lot smoother and they don't pull any hairs and come in a variety of different shapes and sizes I also should mention that I have tried many different size shapes materials rubber really pulls your hair bad metal can be good but tend to retain any smells a lot longer glass according to studies are the easiest and most sanitary to clean and take care of and despite the fact that is glass they are solidly built so they will not break