Hey all, I've been having some issues with tucking.

I have a homemade gaff, which works well, but moves down my butt a lot and have to pull it back up kinda often, though it is tight. It works really well as a gaff, but it's just not very comfortable, and I would much rather have a genuine gaff.

So, I bought a gaff, from a brand named SOR on amazon. I got a size small (which now I just realized I don't know if they're sizing them by waist or hips.., but the small is a 30-34) and I'm a 33 hips, so I figured.. yeah. I got it, and it's too small, so I got a xtra small, thinking, "sure, this'll definitely work". Nope . I mean, it's somewhat tight but it doesn't keep everything hidden.

Also, when I use my homemade gaff, my testes tend to hurt.. Not very badly, but it's sort of a constant, slight pain and it's most noticeable when I'm sitting.

Is there a perfect solution, girls?

Alllsoo, in case anyone wants an update on how I look: https://imgur.com/a/EZJtuIS

It's a dress for a wedding I'm going to.

Quote from: rlacy2018 on December 22, 2018, 08:15:34 PM
Hey all, I've been having some issues with tucking.

I have a homemade gaff, which works well, but moves down my butt a lot and have to pull it back up kinda often, though it is tight. It works really well as a gaff, but it's just not very comfortable, and I would much rather have a genuine gaff.

So, I bought a gaff, from a brand named SOR on amazon. I got a size small (which now I just realized I don't know if they're sizing them by waist or hips.., but the small is a 30-34) and I'm a 33 hips, so I figured.. yeah. I got it, and it's too small, so I got a xtra small, thinking, "sure, this'll definitely work". Nope . I mean, it's somewhat tight but it doesn't keep everything hidden.

Also, when I use my homemade gaff, my testes tend to hurt.. Not very badly, but it's sort of a constant, slight pain and it's most noticeable when I'm sitting.

Is there a perfect solution, girls?

Alllsoo, in case anyone wants an update on how I look: https://imgur.com/a/EZJtuIS

It's a dress for a wedding I'm going to.

Okay as far as your picture goes amazing simply beautiful love to dress you look gorgeous!!! now for the tucking solution are you this is sounding bad are you tucking your testicles up inside you and then folding your penis over and under you between your legs I mean that's what I do... microfiber panties or Victoria's Secret Cheeky panties both of them will help you stay tucked without having to use a gaff and it's still rather comfortable at least for me but I have been doing it for quite a while that way

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So this is probably my favorite gaff when I need one. Typically I don't really need it as I wear jeans most of the time and I'm not super well endowed in that department (thank god).

However with yoga pants or leggings, gaff is definitely required. I hate the idea of taping. That just sounds gross and painful. These are great though. I have about the same hip and waist measurements as you. I bought extra small

https://www.glamourboutique.com/buy/clothing-lingerie/thong-gaff-2


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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 22, 2018, 08:19:09 PM
now for the tucking solution are you this is sounding bad are you tucking your testicles up inside you and then folding your penis over and under you between your legs

This is a great point. Those extra parts between your legs can be pushed back into their "original home" in your lower abdomen. As for the rest, do as Arianna says and just tuck back between your legs. If your not pushing those things back inside, that could be causing some discomfort on sitting


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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 22, 2018, 08:19:09 PM
Okay as far as your picture goes amazing simply beautiful love to dress you look gorgeous!!! now for the tucking solution are you this is sounding bad are you tucking your testicles up inside you and then folding your penis over and under you between your legs I mean that's what I do... microfiber panties or Victoria's Secret Cheeky panties both of them will help you stay tucked without having to use a gaff and it's still rather comfortable at least for me but I have been doing it for quite a while that way

§§§§~~~~If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to accept you?~~~~§§§§

Thaaaankk you! Yes, I am tucking them inside me, but when I do that it seems to make them be at the front of my body, if that makes sense? Like they're more noticeable when I look down.

Quote from: Sky1090 on December 22, 2018, 08:30:00 PM
This is a great point. Those extra parts between your legs can be pushed back into their "original home" in your lower abdomen. As for the rest, do as Arianna says and just tuck back between your legs. If your not pushing those things back inside, that could be causing some discomfort on sitting


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Thanks! Yeah I get the whole jeans thing, but I got a pair of skinny jeans as my first female pants, and I don't feel comfortable without tucking (even though I'm definitely not well-endowed either).

Quote from: rlacy2018 on December 22, 2018, 08:37:24 PM
Thanks! Yeah I get the whole jeans thing, but I got a pair of skinny jeans as my first female pants, and I don't feel comfortable without tucking (even though I'm definitely not well-endowed either).

Oh don't get me wrong, I still tuck when I wear jeans. I do all the time but its a little more of a relaxed tuck in jeans. Especially in skinny jeans. I love how they look and if you position those parts just right, they will disappear behind the seam in the jeans. I've really been tucking since I was 12 or 13 (28 now). I've never liked seeing that between my legs and tucking was my easy discreet way of coping with it. Comfort is not an instant thing. It takes time to get used to staying tucked all the time. Let's face it. Those parts dropped from your abdomen for a reason. Naturally, your body doesn't want them back there for an extended amount of time.


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Quote from: rlacy2018 on December 22, 2018, 08:34:27 PM
Thaaaankk you! Yes, I am tucking them inside me, but when I do that it seems to make them be at the front of my body, if that makes sense? Like they're more noticeable when I look down.

It does kind of push your pelvic scan a little bit but it resembles more of a as I used to call it in my male days a pooch which is definitely feminine I have not been called out by talking like that and using panties to hold them in place but again this is me this is not going to apply to everybody of course

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I tuck most of the time and use tape. This gets a little getting used to but I like the feeling of being really secure and tight. Peeing is a bit of an issue, but I manage (I have been sitting to pee for over 2 years anyway). I wear VS cheekie panties and they do help me stay tucked without the tape if required, particularly if I am wearing tights. Definitely push your testes up into your inguinal canal before folding back your penis between your legs.

For me, tucking away the male parts is important for me to feel like a woman. I am not on HRT and don't have breasts except for 50 yeard old male boobs. I'm lucky to be running and fairly thin (size 30 waist), so I can generally buy women's clothes from most shops (and I dress my age!). I don't tuck to run, however. I can't image 10 miles of running with a penis between my legs 

Good luck

Hugs Zoey

Quote from: Zoey421 on December 22, 2018, 09:09:46 PM
I tuck most of the time and use tape. This gets a little getting used to but I like the feeling of being really secure and tight. Peeing is a bit of an issue, but I manage (I have been sitting to pee for over 2 years anyway). I wear VS cheekie panties and they do help me stay tucked without the tape if required, particularly if I am wearing tights. Definitely push your testes up into your inguinal canal before folding back your penis between your legs.

For me, tucking away the male parts is important for me to feel like a woman. I am not on HRT and don't have breasts except for 50 yeard old male boobs. I'm lucky to be running and fairly thin (size 30 waist), so I can generally buy women's clothes from most shops (and I dress my age!). I don't tuck to run, however. I can't image 10 miles of running with a penis between my legs 

Good luck

Hugs Zoey

Oh my God yes Victoria's Secret cheekies are the Victoria's Secret gift to transgenders and yes the idea of running 10 miles down the road with a penis is not nice before I started transitioning I decided to go jogging wearing bicycle shorts and a sports bra not thinking about actually tucking at the time all right now that I think back I think I can understand why I was getting such odd looks from people

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Quote from: Sky1090 on December 22, 2018, 08:52:05 PM
Oh don't get me wrong, I still tuck when I wear jeans. I do all the time but its a little more of a relaxed tuck in jeans. Especially in skinny jeans. I love how they look and if you position those parts just right, they will disappear behind the seam in the jeans. I've really been tucking since I was 12 or 13 (28 now). I've never liked seeing that between my legs and tucking was my easy discreet way of coping with it. Comfort is not an instant thing. It takes time to get used to staying tucked all the time. Let's face it. Those parts dropped from your abdomen for a reason. Naturally, your body doesn't want them back there for an extended amount of time.


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Oh okay, thanks!!

Quote from: Sky1090 on December 22, 2018, 08:30:00 PM
This is a great point. Those extra parts between your legs can be pushed back into their "original home" in your lower abdomen. As for the rest, do as Arianna says and just tuck back between your legs. If your not pushing those things back inside, that could be causing some discomfort on sitting


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As I stated in another area, tucking the testes back into the inguinal canals is not risk free!  It is bad for the reproductive health, if that is still an issue, because the body temperature is to high to keep the sperm viable.  But worse, those inguinal canals are terminated to the abdomen by a ring muscle.  Constant push against it weakens this muscle, and it can lead to a testicle slipping into the cavity of the abdomen.  In this case an emergence surgery is required.
If you an avoid this technique for tucking, do it!

Quote from: Dietlind on December 22, 2018, 10:59:45 PM
As I stated in another area, tucking the testes back into the inguinal canals is not risk free!  It is bad for the reproductive health, if that is still an issue, because they body temperature is to high to keep the sperm viable.  But worth, those inguinal canals are terminated to the abdomen by a ring muscle.  Constant push against it weakens this muscle, and it can lead to a testicle slipping into the cavity of the abdomen.  In this case an emergence surgery is required.
If you an avoid this technique for tucking, do it!

Linde, thank you for the advice.